RelationshipsNov 12, 2019

girlfriend wants to be elementary teacher - how do i help her switch?

my girlfriend always dreamed of being an elementary school teacher. she loves teaching and helping young kids. however, imo elementary teachers dont make much money. we will have a difficult life because her dreams wont pay the bills. ive given up my dreams to persue software engineering to help us get more money, how do i persuade her to do the same?

Goldman Sachs nottiu Nov 12, 2019

Stupid. You are so stupid.

Apple dbt Nov 12, 2019

Happy wife, happy life bud.

LinkedIn cd- Nov 12, 2019

Not wife, yet

Uber cool-int Nov 12, 2019

Public school teachers get paid well - not as high as Tech but still 100k plus in the Bay area. This is public info please Google. She can start as a teacher then if she doesn't want to continue she can become a Project/Program Manager. IMHO she will have transferable skills.

Amazon kales Nov 12, 2019

$100k? Do you have a source for that?

Box Raviga Nov 12, 2019

@kales here is a source. Look at page 3 https://www.documentcloud.org/documents/5684890-SSA-Alameda-Salary-Charts.html

UiPath MEEB37 Nov 12, 2019

omg set her free

Google m_p_c Nov 12, 2019

If you gave up your dreams for the financial security of software engineering, is this exactly the sort of thing you made that sacrifice for?

Uber cool-int Nov 12, 2019

Also in my opinion you should talk to her about this now, before you propose.

Walmart writecode Nov 12, 2019

Good point, op acting as if they married

Illumina zhash Nov 12, 2019

She needs someone to subsidize her dream. She picked you.

Intel G.Thurberg Nov 12, 2019

So what do you do ? Other than be ...

Amazon OlAl28 Nov 12, 2019

TC

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dudhevrvu Nov 12, 2019

I’m new. What’s TC stand for? Total compensation?

Google gewg Nov 12, 2019

Yes

Box Raviga Nov 12, 2019

You don't. And you won't have a difficult life. Software engineer salary + teacher salary is pretty decent amount. There's more to life than money