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what are some places that attract good women in their 20s? good here means kind, emotionally stable, educated, want a partner that’s equal to them, and just generally a good person. i’ve only tried using dating apps, and instagram so far and while that worked fine, i’ve found that the type of women that these platforms attracts is not someone i’m looking for. what should i try next? ———— edit - i’m not religious so church is out of the question 300k tc
Where are you based? A mid-western will probably say church groups
Based in Seattle, i’m not religious but i can see why church groups would be a good place
Temples, parks
i’ve never heard of people meeting at parks
You can ask a girl out at a park
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Do you use apps ? Do you go to night clubs ?
Which apps? Nope never went to any night club
I have no suggestion aside from dating apps. I have been hit on at bars or while out, but of the thousands of times that happened, I’ve only gone out with two people, so if you think you have the game to pull that off, that works too. Although perhaps other women are more open to going out that way than I am. The other common way is through mutual friends, and that can work but needs a ton of chance to work out just right especially the further away from school you get
mutual friends is a good idea
@google - you are female, correct?
You have to be pretty attractive, then you have to interact with the girl to ascertain her quality. For example many low quality girls respond super positively if you show interest and then ignore them for a little while. This triggers their insecurities and can get them obsessed with getting your validation. However, this cheap trick won’t work on someone more well adjusted. They will find you weird or immature, and lose attraction. You can use this knowledge to text a girl a message or two just after a date, maybe asking if she got home safe or whatever. If this gives her the ick and she doesn’t respond, then great — you’ve just filtered someone out who has really bad priorities. If she responds neutrally or positively without taking too long, she’s probably a well adjusted person. After a couple days time to process how things went, you can proceed with logistics for the next date if you’re still interested.
Don't get this. What if she forgot the phone home while going out? What if she was busy with something else? I always set my phone to silent mode & reply when it's convenient, sometimes I forget.
How old are you? And we are all on dating apps babe. I don’t think we are that rare
i’m 28. i’m sure there are good women on dating apps but it’s impossible to pick them out. good people have a history of being good, and a dating profile doesn’t tell me anything about a person except for how they want me to see them. different places and activities attract different types of people, that’s why i phrased my question the way i did in my post
It’s so true. Dating profiles tell you nothing other than hopefully what that person looks like and maybe a few other things which may not even be true or matter to you. I feel like I struggled with this too because in school I knew exactly what kind of guy I liked but he didn’t have a set physical type - it was his actions and values and how I saw him interact with other students and myself that made me like them. Some of them looking back I think if I saw them on an app I probably wouldn’t have tried to match with them because I’m sure I wouldn’t have been into their photos or their bio could never encapsulate or even demonstrate what an awesome person they are. And I think these girls that you describe have a wide range of interests. My cousin who’s married now was a volleyball player but mostly she was just hanging out with her family, friends, going to the gym, working or in school, while with her boyfriend from college. I like to do multi day hikes and running races but I didn’t meet my partner that way. My day to day is gym work cook read during the week and weekends I see friends. My other hobbies are things like doing art at home, cooking, baking…. I mean I’m a real homebody but I think what I get into is interesting to me haha. We are all out there in the world somewhere but we are so hard to find and the guys we’d like (like you it sounds like) are also hard to find for the same reasons. I had thought at some point about trying to find a matchmaker (not Indian) but it just didn’t seem worth it. Eventually I just randomly met my boyfriend on a small island in the pacific while traveling lol
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