Europe? range(26, 30) straight single F: Terrible dating in SH, CN :(

Back to be based in my hometown since 2018. From more administrative roles to more technical ones but just become officially jobless today. Volunteered for code in place last year. Had a date with an old friend knowing for years, no chemistry; had dated a guy connected via Reddit but still didn’t work out after a couple of months as apparently he didn’t want me to be part of his life plan; had virtually dated a dude during strict lockdown here through Bumble for about a month and a half, almost had never been comfortable with his mean humor, no plan to meet me in real life outdoorsy even after the city-wise lockdown had been lifted, and seemed only sweet if I successfully ordered him food through online fighting at 6am(he did reimburse me the majority of them though) during the lockdown… Afterwards, got a match from Bumble travelling mode(meaning can travel virtually on the app at least to get match there) somewhere I may go studying in Europe soon, the match told me he went to a birthday party and he was attracted to a new neighbor there after we had been chatting for more than 1 week, would it be OK if he were to meet her privately? My answer was no. Then the end. Btw, I am East Asian with skin actually tanned more by Californian sunshine(just a few years there, but umbrella against sunshine for female is a norm in SH.)sans current authorization to work there though. Not really well-travelled, have never actually stepped on the land of Europe but can still speak some basic to intermediate level European languages. But feel I may like it better than other continent on the basis of my 2nd-hand knowledge so far. Mostly, generally better gun control, way more affordable housing in most areas which are safe compared to South Bay which is way safer than East Bay, # of ICU beds / fallout shelters, public medical / disability insurance, stability of job and no need for h1b lottery if not eligible for O kinds of things to work there. And I can mimic Philz’s mint mojito away from CA as long as fresh mint leaves, honey, coffee and cream are available. So, wonder anyone in or from Europe would stop me from studying there because of any sorts of reasons / concerns or interested in getting to know more about me. Or anyone about to be there or thought about to move there. TC: 0 (Most recent one in US currency was just a bit higher than SF min wage, however, still almost doubled from more administrative role initially) #dating #relationships