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Any regular men in SF?

Cisco / EngPetiteGirl
Dec 6

Only nerdy boys go after me in SF. Does SF have any normal men?? I'm 29 and I have been single for the last year and hate myself.

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  • Google QHeh40
    If only nerdy boys go after you then you should reconsider your high opinion of yourself
    Dec 61
    • New / Consultant
      nonsikhman

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      👏
      Dec 6
  • Twitter antifemini
    Your abrasive personality and entitlement complex only attracts nerds at best, eunuchs at worst. Heh, did you ever consider not stuffing so much 🍕 and stop being a petite girl?
    Dec 67
    • Cisco / EngPetiteGirl
      OP
      Twitter... antifemini... no wonder why it’s a sexist company
      Dec 6
    • Twitter antifemini
      @PetiteGirl, what of I said is sexist? Or are you using the old technique of labelling anyone who challenges you as racist/sexist/Islamaphobic/Xenophobic? Oh and if you believe in the lie of feminism, you deserve the suffering, pain and loneliness coming your way.
      Dec 6
    • Verizon BlueWaffl
      Watch out Cisco, you got a lawsuit sniffer on your hands.
      Dec 6
    • Twitter antifemini
      @BlueWaffl Lol
      Dec 6
    • New 0racle
      @antifemini sounds like a virgin that still lives with his mom with no real friends
      Dec 6
    • Verizon BlueWaffl
      Ah, I remember when I was big on high school caliber insults. A+ bichTit
      Dec 6
    • Twitter antifemini
      @0racle omg, how did you know? Very 0racular of you. Oh btw, it's too early to jump to ad-hominem attacks. Might want to start with something milder like "who hurt you?"
      Dec 6
  • Amazon / Eng
    onMyWay

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    onMyWaymore
    “normal”
    Dec 60
  • Microsoft twkh55
    Sounds like you are nerdy yourself or project that image, maybe that's why you attract nerdy boys only?
    Dec 614
    • Twitter antifemini
      @Bluewaffl are you talking to me?
      Dec 6
    • Verizon BlueWaffl
      Nah @OPs bichassssss
      Dec 6
    • Apple / EngSarcasmist
      @BlueWaffl, source for that statement: « The women that don’t, on average, are better paid and hold better positions than men. » ? I’m collecting research data on the subject. Thanks.
      Dec 6
    • Verizon BlueWaffl
      Hit up payscale.com or monster even. The stats are all the same. The gap is non existent.
      Dec 6
    • Oracle / Eng
      pycharm

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      Control over your own life is an illusion.
      pycharmmore
      If the gap is non-existent, then your claim that women make more on average is inconsistent with your biased narrative.
      Dec 6
    • Verizon BlueWaffl
      How does women making more than men on average defend the female less and male more nonsense? I’d say, the majority of higher earners are male. Just because a higher percentage of women say go into education doesn’t have a bearing on a pay gap.

      But when you slice it, job for job, YOE for YOE, there’s no meat to this women earning less garbage.

      As with anything in the US, it’s about the choices you made that put you where you’re at. So why don’t you worry about making non shit places to house data, and get paid more or less on that basis.
      Dec 6
    • Apple / EngSarcasmist
      So I just went to payscale.com, hit up the research and data section and found this right away: « REPORT: THE GENDER PAY GAP COSTS WOMEN $500B A YEAR »
      Did I miss something more nuanced in the actual report? Or in another report?
      Dec 6
    • Verizon BlueWaffl
      You should do some light reading on AAUW... And if you really want to laugh, review their data samples on that particular article.

      PayScale is kind enough to give a platform to even the most hilariously outlandish organizations.
      Dec 6
    • Verizon BlueWaffl
      So yeah, I’d say you missed a good bit.
      Dec 6
    • Microsoft twkh55
      Well this exploded and illustrated why the op isn't looking for a "nerdy boy" (even though she is a nerd herself).
      Dec 6
  • LinkedIn dfvycbjufv
    You hate yourself? Sounds like the perfect woman for me.
    Dec 60
  • Salesforce ljp5405
    There are a few normal men around. Finding normal women is another issue. Many are adult girls.
    Dec 61
    • Expedia Ytdj51
      Like...omg I can’t even
      Dec 6
  • New Tapati0
    Please describe your definition of ‘normal’
    Dec 61
    • Nutanix / OtherBid909
      Spoken like a true nerd.. lol.. this is not product
      Dec 6
  • Cisco / EngPetiteGirl
    OP
    Y’all blowing up my dm
    Dec 64
    • AMD
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      5nmmore
      They are likely all Indian (nothing wrong with that) and are not what you are looking for, Blind is NOT a place to meet “normal” men.
      Dec 6
    • Nutanix monk420
      Lol this is epic. :P
      Dec 7
    • New stuY17
      How is that even epic, all the leprechauns think they came across a broken wing. It's like a club at 1:58AM 😂
      Dec 7
    • Nutanix monk420
      Lol not sure. I was high. Shit don't make sense when I'm sober.
      Dec 7
  • Nutanix monk420
    I feel that if someone doesn't nerd about anything in life, he is not interesting enough in long run. Go date a normal guy, and when the fun part if over complain how there are no interesting guys left in the world.
    Dec 60
  • OpenTable Meliodas
    Sorry, all the regular men in SF are gay.
    Dec 61
    • AMD
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      So true!
      Dec 6
  • Salesforce slymmot
    Welcome to San Francisco. Where everyone is trying really hard to find a partner, using all these stupid dating apps, and yet everyone is single. Men and women. Myself included.

    Everyone is just too picky and have really high standards. One year is nothing. I know plenty of attractive men and women who have been single for years!
    Dec 619
    • Facebook / Engsuperjump
      @monk420 is single.
      @Bhoot is single.

      🤔

      Could this be???
      Dec 6
    • Facebook / Engsuperjump
      Sorry guys I'm drunk 😂
      Dec 6
    • Nutanix monk420
      Haha it's cool man. If my friends were like you, I may have met someone by now :P

      Instead, they are busy getting married and doing married people things. :P I feel at this point it's more important to make friends than date, as the social circle is shrinking pretty fast, which by itself reduces the odds for successful dating.
      Dec 6
    • Salesforce
      Bhoot

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      I am blind to something and you are too.
      Bhootmore
      It gets worse if you are female. My friends have kids in primary School.
      Most guys bring brides from back home at least of my nationality.
      Tinder is creepy.
      Thinking I should subscribe for some matchmaking service. Yelp tells me skilled attraction is good 🤔
      Dec 6
    • Facebook / Engsuperjump
      Maybe try a hobby. I'm a huge house music fan and I've met an ex-girlfriend through music production classes. But then again, maybe I'm young and naive to know the kind of relationships that you're looking for 🤷‍♀️
      Dec 6
    • Nutanix monk420
      Oh that sounds brutal. Half of my friends did go for arranged. I won't be taking that path. And it's great you are not taking the easy path either! I'm sure it will be worth it.

      Just wondering, how did you manage to avoid parent pressure all these years? I guess I could use some tips there, as that storm seems imminent.
      Dec 6
    • Salesforce
      Bhoot

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      I am blind to something and you are too.
      Bhootmore
      @ superjump
      I like your naivete. Please stay that way and don't let this world Jade you 😊

      Yah I do all that, have dated and all, but once you grow older you don't marry impulsively. From serious in love relationship to marriage is still a huge step and most of the times it fails.
      Dec 6
    • Salesforce
      Bhoot

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      I am blind to something and you are too.
      Bhootmore
      @monk420, pressure is there. I allowed myself to meet whom they suggested but made it clear that I'm going to treat it as a first date and that it would need to go the course of a relationship. I was not comfortable accelerating to marriage just because it was an arranged date. Predictably most guys I met that way weren't ready to meet you more than 3 months without some sort of engagement so that didn't work. I come from a pretty conservative South Indian family and have had some pretty interesting and difficult discussions with my parents regarding my necessity for intimacy before marriage, drinking socially, freezing my eggs, Cannabis, traveling alone etc. The road was hard but they kind of understand me now even if they don't agree with me. I couldn't lie to the people who love me the most.
      Dec 6
    • Salesforce slymmot
      Damn, those are hard conversations indeed. I am pretty bad when it comes to communication with my parents. I'm in the same boat: they cannot fathom my decisions, but they support me nonetheless.
      Dec 6
    • Salesforce
      Bhoot

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      I am blind to something and you are too.
      Bhootmore
      Yes. I went though a lot. I realized I was spending upwards of 20k a year on mental health. My married friends did not want to listen to me, my parents couldn't understand me, hardly any women around. So then I was like, what do I lose opening up to my family, worst case they'll throw me out, but I'm already out. And started from there. :)
      Dec 6
  • Flagged by the community.

    • Amazon 123raj
      U mean cooch?
      Dec 6
    • Verizon BlueWaffl
      I chose my words wisely
      Dec 6
    • Uber 4x intern
      I thought it was pronounced gooch
      Dec 6
    • Verizon BlueWaffl
      Yeah but amazon only hires morons
      Dec 6
    • Expedia Ytdj51
      No...amazon is right
      Dec 6
  • What's wrong with nerdy boys? They're usually the only ones that can keep up with me intellectually.
    Dec 62
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      +1
      Dec 6
    • Airbnb lhCL04
      ☝️
      Dec 7
  • New stuY17
    The level of weird in the responses is off the charts. I'm pretty sure most posters are chubby virgins.
    Dec 60
  • Google / DesignSVRZ
    You will not find normal guys here (see above). I'd move to a city with diverse industries like New York or Chicago
    Dec 60
  • Juniper scandeep
    Go down to man jose, sunnymale or silicon maley and you won’t have any trouble finding men there.
    Dec 60
  • New IUOc04
    I still didn’t get an answer who is normal
    Dec 60
  • New IUOc04
    Yeah - would be nice to hear how do you define ‘normal’?
    Dec 60
  • I’m here honey. DM me when you get a chance
    Dec 70
  • Ness Technologies FkTrump
    You are only good for nerdy ones. So stop trying
    Dec 60
  • Snapchat +1s
    TC?
    Dec 60

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