Asking for numbers in the tinder generation

Boom eDSu52
Jun 9 28 Comments

A lot of my guy friends have said they would never ask a for a girls number from a UBER pool.

If the conversation was going well, would you?

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  • Uber bobaboi
    People talk when in Uber pool??
    Jun 9 2
    • Amazon
      ps.ily

      Amazon

      PRE
      Google
      ps.ilymore
      Not to the driver
      Jun 9
    • Intel D’s🥜
      I really need a “silence other riders” feature
      Jun 10
  • New / Finance MWSt70
    Be careful, you might end up as the subject of a viral Medium post.
    Jun 9 0
  • Marqeta lil_zucky2
    Yeah if you're hitting it off.

    Otherwise it comes across as peak thirst at best and straight up creepy at worst.
    Jun 9 0
  • Microsoft Specific
    If she's working on driving the conversation with you, maybe. If you're the one keeping it going, absolutely not.
    Jun 9 0
  • Google uzaname
    Don't ask for a number. Ask if she might be interested in going out at some point and give her your business card (yeah, these are still useful for situations like that)
    Jun 9 6
    • Marqeta lil_zucky2
      But what if you're trying to play some kinda 8D multi-variable Parcheesi with the business card and be like "yo bby i respecc wamen so I'll give u my car because u seem like a strong independent professional but i still got needs u feel me"
      Jun 9
    • Microsoft Specific
      ^ Whatever that was, don't do that. ^
      Jun 9
    • New tapR56
      i usually just show 🍆
      Jun 10
    • Marqeta lil_zucky2
      Yeah showing hog is the most efficient method
      Jun 10
    • New tapR56
      no, my eggplant, later we make Bhartha together. good way to get to know each other
      Jun 10
  • Microsoft / Eng cbCv23
    You better have some strong signals tho.
    Jun 9 0
  • New eeess
    why waste a good opportunity? be a man.
    Jun 9 0
  • Google 500513
    Made some amazing connections via uber
    Jun 9 0
  • New
    uedC03

    New

    BIO
    I like long beaches on the walk.
    uedC03more
    lol i wonder how many people said yes because blind is anonymous, but wouldnt actually.
    Jun 9 1
    • Microsoft Specific
      Seems a rather pointless thing to lie about.
      Jun 9
  • Uber / Eng ythj
    Instagram
    Jun 9 0
  • Apple tim_c00k
    Just go for it, worst case scenario they say no and it's awkward for a few minutes then somebody gets off and you never see each other again.
    Jun 9 0
  • Facebook dXQm00
    Only if conversation is going really really well
    Jun 9 0
  • Boom eDSu52
    OP
    (Just going to use blind as my dating advice). - I was in a UBER and the guys invited me out (they were going to a bar near my drop off point), I said yeah maybe. Continued to talk about how it was hard to meet people in our city and how dating apps suck. At the end of the ride we got out and went our separate ways, no numbers exchanged.
    Jun 9 3
    • Oracle / Eng such1slife
      Lol. He invited you to hangout. Maybe he would have asked your number if you would hv gone. Asking for a number from total stranger is creepy
      Jun 9
    • Boom eDSu52
      OP
      I think it’s hard to tell when people are being genuine in an invite after they’ve met you in a UBER for 10 minutes. Like “oh we’re going to x bar for this event, you should come” I think it’s awkward on the other end to “accept” and also go say no, so you end up saying yeah maybe! Which isn’t a strong signal either way.
      Jun 9
    • Intel D’s🥜
      You are the one summoning an exclusivity / hard-to-meet-people atmosphere.

      If they had 0 intention of hanging out with you - they wouldn’t have told you where they were going.
      Jun 10
  • Twitter
    Oomnj

    Twitter

    BIO
    It’s all shitposts and jokes - get a sense of humor!
    Oomnjmore
    Only ask for either Snap or insta. If she gives you snap, she’s pretty open. If she follows you an insta - you get a good follower; win either way
    Jun 14 0
  • Amazon FBNinja+
    The conversation has to be so good that you will know its not weird to ask.
    Jun 9 0
  • Amazon / IT hsik36
    ***I answered no, but if I wasn't in Seattle I would have answered yes
    Jun 9 0