I am almost finalizing my divorce and have been through very rough patch in last 3-4 years. My golden years and time period went down the drain. However, I tried to brush off the pain and pick up myself and get back in the game. I have been trying to start dating again but it just does not work. People who have been through similar situations are not interested to meet or talk or date in SF Bay area. I want to find someone with the intention of settling down in the near future. Any advice?
Many people with your profile try dancing. Besides that, it’s a great life investment, and you get to meet very cool people. Ping me if you want guidance.
Salsa bro checking in!
That's what you get for being dumb enough to get married
That's very uncool of you man. Don't kick OP he's already down.
I would do it again if it were with the right person. It is not marriage that breaks a relationship it is the person you are married to.
Attend a church. You'll find mature woman there.
Lolz that you people assume OP is male
Can you give us tips to avoid similar problems that you have faced. I’m sure some of us are interested and want to learn from the hardship you’ve been through. It must be difficult...
Yea what happened with your marriage and what led you to pick the wrong person?
Just a wrong person who faked love in a relationship to come to the US. Once they got what they wanted ( immigration status and job) it all went downhill from that point on and they started harassing and torturing. Just hard to believe this shit happens (& that it can happen to yourself).
Tinder
Dude.....
I met my boyfriend on Tinder. Been together over 2 years. You have to sift through a lot of shitty people, but it *can* work out.
You want to marry again. Dear God. Why? Why? It only gets harder the second time.
I never really had a marriage the first time. My guess is it is a great but not required. I would love to find someone who is ok to be in committed relationship as I want to have kids.
If you want kids, then you should marry. Don't go halfway. Marry. Become a family man/woman. Adore your kids. Love your spouse. Stay away from drugs, alcohol and adultery. Go all the way and be the good and complete dad. If you don't want kids, then don't marry.
Get a hobby or three
I am not sure. I really do not want to further waste my time in hookups. They are not helpful. I would rather find someone for long term and who wants to settle down.
I can't even get a hookup from hookup apps. 😂😂😂