First date went well

Facebook / Eng shortguy
May 3 70 Comments

She's super attractive, almost a model. Smart and funny.

Coming over Sunday for second date.

Wish me luck!

First date went well

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  • Amazon
    ps.ily

    Amazon

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    ps.ilymore
    ɴᴏᴡ ᴘʟᴀʏɪɴɢ:
    Gold Digger - Kanye West
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    May 3 7
    • New / IT
      gerhardt

      New IT

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      gerhardtmore
      Says the fb engineer
      May 3
    • Google Groogle
      Can’t hear anything. I need a new phone
      May 3
    • New / Design Red Delta
      This is a video. That’s why.
      May 3
    • New / Design Red Delta
      At this time marker. The lyrics are “18 years...”
      May 3
    • New Akihito
      I hear you
      May 3
  • SpaceX ________
    Weird flex but okay... Keep us posted.
    May 3 4
    • Facebook / Eng shortguy
      OP
      Life is pretty hard. Gotta appreciate the small wins!
      May 3
    • SpaceX ________
      Few things better stay hard !
      Especially when they are "short"
      May 3
    • Facebook / Eng shortguy
      OP
      😭 hitting my insecurity right in the feels
      May 3
    • SpaceX ________
      Dang man, at least you should be having less insecurities than users whose passwords got stored in notepad
      May 3
  • Intel chesperado
    Looks like you think she is better than you. She might be but don’t show it to her.
    May 3 2
    • Facebook / Eng shortguy
      OP
      I was pretty nervous and I thought I blew it. She texted me later saying she had a good time and want to meet again!
      May 3
    • Intel mentalbuoy
      Good luck! I hope your “shortguy” is ready the next time :P
      May 3
  • Google DocStrange
    Thread is useless without pics.
    May 3 12
    • Akamai Technologies VmQQ44
      No one, also I’m not Asian so I don’t have this problem but I do have a lot of Asian friends, male and female. So just like yellow fever is real, especially among white tech dudes, it works the other way with Asian guys and girls who think they’ve found a white prince/princess but in reality they’re a 3. I just find the whole thing amusing but average/sub average white people deserve love too so I’m happy that you think she’s almost a model.
      May 3
    • Facebook / Eng shortguy
      OP
      Well I'm pretty Americanized (was in States since middle school in a very WASP-y region) so I don't think I really have this problem. But who am I trying to convince lol
      May 3
    • Akamai Technologies VmQQ44
      Again, just speaking from experience that probably helps but doesn’t guarantee anything. All the Asian guys dating the sub 5s that I know are very Americanized and well educated. Really though, we should probably be thanking all the people dating sub 5s because dating probably keeps the sub 5s from becoming shrieking, rabid, men hating feminists... as if we need anymore of those.

      Godspeed @shortguy! Just do us all a favor and don’t upset her because I guarantee there’s an angry white feminist just below the surface.
      May 3
    • Microsoft FromMars
      Stereotypes is the only blocker for Asian men. Women are more open to different races and many Asian men don’t even attempt or have low confidence when they don’t have to.

      Also what is wrong with dating sub par 3s? Most of Asian women who date or marry to other races are also 3s at best but that is actually a good thing. Do you want only the 4s can date anyone? Then, 90% of people will stay single forever. 98% for techies ;)

      If Asian men are attracted and think sub par 3s feel like super models, that is also a good thing. If your daughter is sub 3 and no one in your race want to date her, how would you feel? Are you a proud parent of kid no one wants to date?

      I just feel like @VmQQ is stereotyping and being negative unnecessarily. Your future (or current) gf/wife is a super model to you but it may be 1 for others. That is how many people find their partners. I think you felt offended thinking OP is bragging but this is an anonymous forum. Just be a good guy. If you are having a bad day, don’t comment.
      May 3
    • Akamai Technologies VmQQ44
      Nope not having a bad day, just found the whole topic amusing based on my experience with Asian friends. Just like I find the white guy/Asian female stereotype in tech amusing. Stereotypes exists for a reason.
      May 3
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    • Facebook / Eng shortguy
      OP
      Yup!
      May 3
    • Facebook / Eng shortguy
      OP
      Thanks brah 😘
      May 3
  • New / Design Red Delta
    I’d change “almost a model,” to could be a model, or else you might /almost/Netflix and chill.
    May 3 0
  • Microsoft Cbrvgsxu
    Russian ?
    May 3 6
    • Microsoft Cbrvgsxu
      Are there American women that look like models?
      May 3
    • Facebook / Eng shortguy
      OP
      If you look at the right places!
      May 3
    • New bmmC14
      Yeah, Russian-American
      May 3
    • Microsoft / Eng sonofa🍑
      Why Russian?
      May 3
    • New VreM84
      I play balalaika.
      May 3
  • New / IT
    gerhardt

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    Tc or gtfo
    May 3 2
  • Oath OPnd70
    How’d you guys meet and location?
    May 3 3
    • SpaceX ________
      Lazy FBI guy detected
      May 3
    • Oath OPnd70
      Actually, NSA
      May 3
    • SpaceX ________
      Refer - Cracking the meme references
      May 3
  • New VreM84
    Are you planning to park your Cadillac in her backyard?
    May 3 0
  • LinkedIn / Eng lambda/\
    How do you know? If one thinks their interview went well, it doesn't mean it really did go well
    May 6 4
    • New / Eng
      gerhardt

      New Eng

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      gerhardtmore
      He may have been compensated satisfactory after the date ;)
      May 6
    • Facebook / Eng shortguy
      OP
      Yes 😏
      May 6
    • LinkedIn / Eng lambda/\
      What was the compensation?
      May 6
    • Facebook / Eng shortguy
      OP
      👉👌💦
      May 7
  • Facebook / Eng shortguy
    OP
    Update: second date went well 😏
    May 6 3
    • New / Eng
      gerhardt

      New Eng

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      gerhardtmore
      Pics or it didn’t happen
      May 6
    • SpaceX ________
      Did you smash?
      May 6
    • Facebook / Eng shortguy
      OP
      Yup
      May 6
  • LinkedIn / Eng PQTs20
    Are you American too?
    May 3 7
    • Intel mentalbuoy
      Just be yourself, approach confidently, hold the conversation and most importantly respect her.
      Source: my own experiences.
      May 3
    • Facebook / Eng shortguy
      OP
      I'm eastern asian but I'm immigrating and I've received my green card this year.

      Tips? I'm not sure. I think I lucked into her tbh. I'm pretty brutally honest with people and I straight up told her I'm pretty nervous right now and she thought that was pretty funny at the start.
      May 3
    • LinkedIn / Eng PQTs20
      Well, life is all luck. Good luck for your second date. Just hope she is not just after your $$
      May 3
    • Facebook / Eng shortguy
      OP
      I hope not! If she is, oh well. It was a fun couple of dates
      May 3
    • Palo Alto Networks !💥
      You won't know till it's too late
      May 3
  • New / Eng abuhr3i
    Troll, then why is it going out with yoi short guy?
    May 3 1
    • Facebook / Eng shortguy
      OP
      I want to ask her that too
      May 3
  • Microsoft / Eng sonofa🍑
    Sounds like a date with Tesla. Model X to be precise.
    May 3 1
  • Microsoft FromMars
    Listen to Second Date podcast so you don’t make dumb mistakes! It is a hilarious show where people who got rejected (because the partner ignored the call) for second date asking the show host to find out why by calling the person
    May 3 0
  • Amazon nick_goku3
    Pepega
    May 3 0