Question for women on Blind I keep reading that women are attracted to guys because of their personality. Never quite understood what do you specifically look/mean when you say personality. I am single and not so good looking. I could use your help to make myself better in dating space. What does the personality even encompass? What can I do to make my personality stand out to be more attractive to you and women in general? Please be sincere and tell the truth. What turns you on in a man about his personality where you may be able to compromise on looks? If you can be exhaustive and list basic and advanced things that a man can be that will make him stand apart from the rest easily, it would be helpful. Please be kind, honest and helpful. Please mention your age group and Gender in your response if you are okay with it.
Being funny (but knowing when to stop) always helps
Confidence and humour. Lead the situation. Don’t be needy, jealous or controlling.
Don't stutter
Don't give a crap about them, go to the gym, grow some confidence and you will find the one. Please don't be the beta craving for love. This exist in Disney not in real life. Women want men not boys. The most important part: concentrate on yourself.
^ this. Trying to mold yourself to their expectations is universally a huge turnoff to women, even if they don't realize it. Always disagreeing for the sake of disagreeing is also a huge turnoff, so you're best off disagreeing naturally, as you would with any trusted friend.
Ask men who have more success on this area? A woman's expectation is personal. So I don't know if that will help. All of this doesn't factor looks- Groom well, workout, look fit, carry yourself confidently (not cocky), humor helps a Lotttttt, speak intelligently, stay humble.
This, exactly. The first thing I thought while reading this is that men have probably thought much more carefully about this than women have. I was surprised op chose to restrict their question to women. To cadence, I’d say that the line between confidence and cockiness is blurred and depending on context, cockiness is sometimes appropriate. Being disrespectful is not.
@google - agreed. I think I can put up with a lil cockiness, have zero tolerance for disrespect.
For me... Funny. Respectful. Kind. A little bit mischievous. Flirty. Big laughs and exuding an aura of happiness. I love it when someone has that positive air about them. It's infectious and makes me happy in turn.
Big laughs ? 😂😂
Yup! As opposed to fake or small ones.
Let me be stone cold honest here. I fall for a man who is at his best when with me. You don’t have to be a mango or a guerrilla to stand out. You need to make her feel comfortable, accepted, and give her freedom. Think of yourself as an incubator and create the perfect environment for the next person to grow. If you succeed at being that, not only will you get the girl, you may have a shot at having her for life. This is not about you, this is about her. Givers gain.
@op this is a really bad advice. She wants a beta, basically treat her like a queen (and yourself like garbage or slave). You don't want that. You are the prize remember.
This would work if girls felt the same.
Never ask a woman how to attract women. It’s like asking deer on how to best hunt them. Ask men who are successful in this area. My advice- be mysterious. Keep women guessing. Women aren’t attracted to guys who are an open book. I recommend reading ‘become the 3% man’
Become a person who they prefer over watching TV. The truth in any human relationship is that it's based on perceived value. Provide value, be someone who other people want, and you'll be in demand.
For starters don’t ask questions like this. Be yourself, don’t worry about advice from strangers on the internet. Confidence is key and the easiest way to be confident is to be sure of who you are instead of trying to be someone you’re not.
This is getting dating advice from hot people . Be yourself only works for people who won the genetic lottery