Microsoft msft3265
Aug 7, 2018 27 Comments

Female to female micro-aggression is alive and well at Microsoft!! It is hard enough being a female in a male dominated sector but getting picked at by passive aggressive superiors is astounding and a bit sad. Why does this occur?


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  • Intel / Mktg nononsense
    My observation in general is that women are often treated worse by other women than by men. I don't think this is unique to Microsoft.
    Aug 7, 2018 1
    • Microsoft / Eng Trovador
      It's the thing around "i had a hard time getting here, so you should get used to that and be challenged". As they fear your success being treated normally would undermine their previous effort.
      Happens with all minorities.
      Aug 7, 2018
  • Amazon Beebos 🐝
    Internalized sexism is real. We live in a culture that values toxic masculinity and many women have had to adopt these traits to survive. There used to only be one seat at the table for women, so the hunger-games mentality was a requisite. As more space is made for us, it's hard to evolve past methods that no longer are the most effective just because once upon a time they were. I don't see this same mentality with the young women I mentor, and I believe that slowly it will fade away.
    Aug 7, 2018 1
    • Amazon BlindExec
      You have toxic femininity
      Aug 7, 2018
  • US Bank MasterFlap
    Most people won’t like the answer, but the reason his happens is purely human nature/biology. Males AND females compete for mates, and generally for power/influence/etc.

    That’s why typically the best work relationships are fostered between opposite sex vs same sex.

    So if you’re a male, seek out a female boss (that won’t feel threatened by you, this is challenging if you’re in a technical role).

    If you’re a female, seek out a male boss.

    This is a predictable pattern that is comically reproducible at practically every social/working environment.

    Or in short...the minute you tease out a superior’s insecurity you’re on their shit list forever, specially same sex relationships.
    Aug 7, 2018 1
    • Twitter Yyg8z
      This last paragraph has happened to me. It got ugly.
      Aug 7, 2018
  • Microsoft Tinglybee
    Yeah it's pretty bad. I would rather work with only men at Microsoft than to have to deal day to day with these petty women and their level pegging bullshit.
    Aug 7, 2018 0
  • Microsoft
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    I had two women managers. Both were the worst ever and worst time in my career. For some reason women have higher expectations on other women. Both just targeted me and I never figured out why. In both cases it was probably a small thing and they just assumed the worst intentions. Don’t know how to fix. I am very nervous about reporting to a women. If they just talk to you instead of making assumptions or stories it would be easy.
    Aug 11, 2018 0
  • Amazon tc-gtfo
    “Male dominated sector”
    for fucks sake,it about the “smarter dominated sector”
    Aug 7, 2018 1
    • Microsoft saltytears
      I get yah man, but we don't have the idealized meritocracy you're implying in the real world.
      Aug 7, 2018
  • Microsoft RlKD44
    It's a dominace thing that is human. That is how some people get ahead by taking out the competition around them.
    Aug 7, 2018 0
  • Cisco Go!
    Sometimes they just don't like the fact you are younger and prettier 😄....
    Aug 7, 2018 1
    • Microsoft / Mgmt

      Microsoft Mgmt

      Goes for both genders..
      Aug 7, 2018
  • Microsoft / Legal JXIR57
    Gender bias is pervasive across all aspects of society. That's why it's called societal bias and not personal bias. There's no logical reason for women to be exempt from this bias, as they are also members of society. It just feels worse, because we hope they are more attuned to bias that impacts them... But it's not a given.

    Oh, and the passive aggressive crap? That seems to be a personality trait of the Pacific Northwesterner. If you're at MSFT HQ in Redmond, you'll just have to get used to it, maybe check out some psychology books on how to deal with passive aggressiveness.
    Aug 23, 2018 1
    • Adobe Coco Puff
      Yes, Pacific NW passive-aggressive behavior is pervasive, especially in Seattle. I’ve lived in a lot of places and it seems like the area is becoming the SoCal of the NW - it’s all about TC, where you live, what you drive, etc.

      I’d rather be back in MT where people don’t bullshit, are impressed by character not where you ate dinner, and where the sun shines.
      Feb 9
  • Microsoft hotsteppa
    Sorry to hear this, OP. I work with females here at MSFT and they are all treated very well. Without their daily smiles I'd lose my shit and be a dick to everyone around.
    Aug 7, 2018 0
  • Adobe Coco Puff
    When I worked at Microsoft, I rarely had issues with men - the one major time was with a male SWD manager, but it was clearly cultural.

    It was the fellow women who were f$&@ing horrible. And, no, not the fantastic millennials people complained about - it was the group of women who were in their 40s and 50s, never worked anywhere else, and had huge chips on their shoulders.

    I did, however, have one fantastic female manager there; the other female manager I had was horrible.
    Feb 9 0
  • Microsoft HuHY03
    If there’s a woman interviewer I automatically assume I won’t pass
    Aug 21, 2018 0
  • Microsoft TipIt🍸
    Yeah I won't work for females at Microsoft. It's the worst I have seen it at a corporation
    Aug 24 0
  • Adobe LightYrs
    It’s why I left. Women backstab (there) like it’s a full-time job. I’m not (nor will I ever be) one of those women.
    Aug 5 0
  • Microsoft curious234
    “Women understand women. And they hate each other. That’s all I need to know” -Al Bundy
    Aug 5 0
  • Microsoft Tinofspuds
    Yeah at Microsoft it's the worst I have ever seen.
    Feb 9 0
  • Amazon zxajvcyhwg
    Megan Saunders?
    Aug 7, 2018 1
    • Microsoft yKBh80
      Lora Lindsey?
      Jan 17
  • Galvanize / Eng Rand(0-99)
    The honest truth is most men are happy to work along side women. They're nerds who didn't get much female attention growing up. A woman who can speak their language is the holy grail of associates. This culture has become so focused on "the patriarchy" we've completely ignored the power women actually have over men.
    Sep 8 0
  • T-Mobile / Product

    T-Mobile Product

    Microsoft, Amazon
    This. It’s why I left. No fixing each other’s crowns at this place.
    Aug 24 0
  • Amazon Nostalgic
    What exactly happened?
    Aug 7, 2018 0