I have been a physically weak woman. As a kid, I would suffer from severe growing pains and cold with every change in season. I do not suffer from anything major (thankfully) but overall I have always suffered from smaller unrelated things which I am always taking medication for (like hirsutism, overweight, severe hairfall and premature greying, thyroid to name a few) although I try to maintain a healthy lifestyle. Given my health condition, I am debating if I should look for a partner or not. I don't want to be a liability on him later in life but at the same time, I also feel the need for a companion since I know my parents can not always be looking after me and I would need someone to lean on. I have always had enough guys who showed interest in me but I never paid any attention to them so far. Any suggestions/thoughts?
Even with AIDS, you are free to date with someone with or without the disease, as long as your partner knows in advance
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Of course. Your health conditions have nothing to do with your right to be happy and in love.
We all have our issues. And even if we are perfectly healthy when we meet someone, that can change on a dime. Don’t let it stop you from finding happiness with a partner. No one deserves to be alone unless they want to be. The trick is finding someone who has a different issue than you do you can support them, or a something you see as an issue but he doesn’t.
OP, we all have issues. Don’t put yourself in a cage and isolate yourself from people. Go out and date ✨🌸⭐️🌠🌞🙂🤝
Absolutely agree with this!
Thank you, @TinyGirl. l truly believe that sometimes we are so in our heads and overthink things. It would be better if she just let herself go and give/get some sweet kisses from guys ♥️🙂🌸⭐️🌎✨✨
totally go for it!
Go for it you deserve to be happy and be honest always, life can be painful but it goes on, you should not turn away from pursuit of happiness ! Best wishes !
If a guy wants to invest in you, why stop them? As long as you never hide anything from them and they are aware of what they're getting into, it's their choice. You wouldn't need to feel guilty if someone chose to marry you assuming they were aware of any health concerns beforehand
How old are you?
I am separated. My wife left me 15 months ago. Any of the girls I meet don’t want to date because I’m separated.
Take your time. Really take your time to take care yourself. Gym, a therapist, good food...Don’t jump into the dating game right away...
Did you find someone? Why is being separated a problem?
People are free to make choices. Be honest about your health and if someone wants to be your long-term partner that’s their choice and you shouldn’t feel guilty.
How far into the dating process should I bring this up? Neither do I want to scare him away, nor do I want to invest in him only to realize he left after listening to this. How do you suggest I take this forward?
Probably a few months in. My wife disclosed her depression to me when we were dating at that point and it scared some people away but not me. You need to judge it by feel; specific timeframe won’t necessarily work.