What are some safety dos and don’ts women have for random hookups ?
I have recently come to realize that hooking up is not as easy for women as we men think ... yes they have thousands of options but because of the safety issues they aren’t as willing ! The guy may turn out to be a weirdo , creep, rapist or a killer ! Sex is fun and every woman who wants to enjoy it should be able to ... So what do ladies who practice regular casual sex with random men do in order to make themselves feel safe in every way ? PS - no judgments please ! Keep your heteronormativity and slut shaming to yourself ! Yes I know women can hook up with women too but that won’t be half as scared of being raped or killed !
Put a silver lining in the taco before getting stuffed?
Please elaborate
I think (s)he meant condom
Let a friend know you are hooking up with a rando. Send them his pic, and turn on location sharing with your friend.
^ solid move
Wtf is that?? Is she eating a wrench?
Volumes? He used condoms, Amazon.
Install one way glass in your home and have your friends be witnesses 😂😂😂
I know only about those who do it professionally (sex workers), but I have no idea what normie women do for their safety, maybe the same things, maybe yolo. So professional escorts always ask to provide references from other escorts or sometimes they can do employment verification (you send a neutral message to them from your work address). I also think they usually have a friend and when they enter your apartment, they often go to your bathroom where they text that everything is ok. And of course a safer way is to rent a hotel room and invite a guy instead of visiting his apartment.
How would a normal girl do all of that? ( except for getting a hotel room )
Female here, here is my recommendation: - Get his full name and do a Google and social media search - If he has a car, note his license plate - Before hooking up, text someone you trust all the information about the person and your location. (Ideally, enable “share location” with that same friend.) - Trust your gut, if something feels off, don’t do it
This is simple : 1) do lot of texting before you meet 2) look them up on LinkedIn or FB . Some have high privacy and should be okay 3) meet for drinks at crowded place 4) always go to a hotel . As a guy we understand safety needs and we respect that.
What about risk of STDs ?
-keep an eye on your drinks or make them yourself -always go to a hotel -let someone know where you are going to be that night and give a check in time for the morning so that if you don’t reach out to them by then they know you are missing -turn on your location -get as much info about him as you can and relay it to one other person -carry a defense weapon like a pepper spray, taser, defense spike (they fit on to your keychain), knife
But that won’t be dangerous for women like hooking up with men .... there is a reason most violent criminals are men
Murderedbywords?