I've been visiting SF and the Bay for a month to visit some friends from college, and the vast, vast majority of girls here are not attractive at all. Seems like someone even moderately attractive is rare, both on the apps and real life. How do you guys live and cope out here? Most young guys I talk...Read more
Hearing that Meta is preparing for a fresh round of significant layoffs across the organization: engineering, finance, operations- basically following in the footsteps of Google. This downturn in tech is looking even worse than in the 2000s dot com bubble in terms of layoffs.
600k down. No debt. 700k tc this year. Family of 3. Could be making 400k in the following years if I just want to have an easy life.
her face is enough to make me swoon. should i ask to marry her. she is a bakery chef. my tc will be enough for her. tc -350k
Seems outrageous. But it’s near work with great schools. #housing #mortgage NW $6m
I heard it's pretty hard to find tech job now.
https://www.cnn.com/2024/04/28/politics/cnn-poll-trump-biden-matchup/index.html #elections #president
I got a match with a 29F desi woman on Facebook dating app. She mentioned looking for friends in the bio. Later she told me she is married and her husband is living far away due to the job and he is planning to search for a job near her place after a few months. I couldn't ask her if her husband k...Read more
I'm in a terrible cycle: create valorant account, play every minute if my free time for a few weeks/months to the point I get sick of it, then staft raging and eventually get banned. Take a few weeks off and repeat. Also spend a few grand on skins each time I know I'll probably go through another 3...Read more
Hi, For the people who left Seattle due to the bad weather, where did you move to? Cold, rainy, cloudy, windy …
As a woman if I'm going out with a man and he only has guy friends, plus the only women in his life are his mom and aunts. Then that's a HUGE red flag. Because first you're only getting opinions and advice from men. Second it gives off like you categorize women into only two categories, ones to have...Read more
Netflix is the hardest to get into, but what is the easiest? Amazon is the easiest to get out of as well, what has the most golden handcuffs?
No I am not Indian, but I do think that given the gap in dating skill and attractiveness across the human population, it is a good idea to bring back something like arranged marriage for at least a part of the population. The current system of people freely selecting their partners works only for p...Read more
I have been struggling to sleep for more than 5 hours daily. Tried otc medication, meditation, exercise etc but nothing is really helping. Doctors suggest sleep medications which are addictive. I don’t think my problem is that worse yet. They ask me to reduce screen time but unfortunately I can’t d...Read more
I am too attached to work. My life is consumed by work and the grind. Help release me from this endless hell. I wanna be chill like you. #tech TC: $600k
If so, 1. What are the complications in choosing an appropriate egg donor ? 2. What are the additional complications from surrogacy in addition to the standard ones (time, money etc.) TC: 400 Yoe 16
I feel we miss a lot on life and things we are biologically wired to do. Don’t get me wrong, it might not be true for everyone but I feel I would have been much happier and fulfilled just taking care of kids, family , home and pursuing hobbies like painting , cooking. I am decent at my job but feel...Read more