I turned 30 last year. I’m an Indian girl. I used to find the idea of marriage and long term relationships gross in my 20s. I kept turning down a lot of men and had casual flings with many. Also, was dishonest with a few. In my 20s, I got so much attention from men, specially my Indian male friends. Since I turned 30, I’ve been getting hardly any attention from men. Most of my friends got married and the other men, even on dating apps, seem hardly interested in trying on me. I am finding it really hard to deal with not being wanted anymore. How do I overcome this and get men to chase me again?
Dating women in their 30s is awful because it feels like i’m auditioning for the role of the last man on earth. Too much pressure. If you are a man and take good care of yourself you can date women in their 20s well into your 40s. New women are being born every year. Why deal with all of that pressure, as a man? Men do not chase women in their 30s, they settle for them. They chase after women in their 20s. Sounds like your problem is you thought you’d be 20 forever!
I disagree. I didn’t like dating women in their 20s. Too much needy for attention. Not worth it
Sooo not true!! Quality men do not obsess over your age. If you’re putting out a desperation vibe you’ll repel even women from wanting to be around you. Be interesting, independent and happy. Insecurity is a huge turnoff. Guys dig smart, fun, free spirits. Marriage is NOT the key to happy.
PM me for casual fling
Ridiculous
Who knows these 2 might be sharing msgs by now, if both parties are fine why, you the third party, find it ridiculous?
Be the way you are. Don’t change a thing right now in your life. You want a man to love you for who you are
This is good advice for dying alone
I disagree.
> 30 no bueno
We, men, tend to get more mature around 30. No more chasing around for us, thank you very much. - 30 yr old man.
Yep SMV of a man is an appreciating asset ..for women? Not so much ..it's payback time for treating us like shit in your 20s
Get fit and treat yourself better. I can’t see ya so that’s all I can say. Also, it’s your turn to chase now, and there’s no shame in doing it! Another thing, if your confidence is low get it up as that might be one reason men aren’t flying to you
You have to decrease the dishonest factor for sure
Get in top shape, dress well, have high confidence. That's about all you can do
Why do you think they were chasing you? To settle down. There was a purpose to it. You can still get men to chase you -- just not the marriage minded because that crowd dwindles at 30.
Yes, they were chasing you solely to give you a firm handshake and then earnestly offer their hand in marriage. Uh huh.
It's a mating game to test longer term compatibility. Yes, you have fun in the process. The guys who were just looking to get laid would still be chasing into the 30s.
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