I went out with a guy who is 7 years older. He seemed wonderful, kind and nice. The only thing that concerns me is the age gap. Am I overthinking it ? TC - 207k
Try a 40 year gap.
If age is the only thing concerning you, you are overthinking this. Go get him. :-)
:)
The only time I can think of it as a problem is if he is 18yrs old.
Lol no, I’m 29…so….. And it’s not much of a problem, I’m worried we may be have some incompatibilities because we are of different age…
At 29, you can handle an even bigger gap
I see couples 10 yr apart all the time.
7 yrs is fine. You can go for 15 yrs gap also.
7 year gap is not a big deal. Go for him. Men age like fine wine.
😂
Only if they work on themselves. Low quality men (or even people in general) don't magically become better at 35 than they were at 25
My parents are 13 years apart.
Absolutely not. As a matter of fact, we men mature at least 6-7 years slower than women. He will be more mature, responsible, and career-oriented. For instance, my elder brother is 31 and just got married to a 23.5 year old MBBS graduate, and they are both very happy. All the very best.
Lmao all the guys here gaslighting you to ignore gap, it's not a big deal or wrong. But you should be careful as to why is he considering you and not someone of his age. Either his age woman don't like him - potential red flag or he prefers younger women - another red flag. The only thing which can be considered is he is not finding his match preferences (except looks) he wants from his age women.
Agree. It seemed like he’s looking for something exciting in his life and he thinks life would be an adventure with me. At the risk of boasting, I do think I’m fun to hang out with (most def when compared to him 🙈) I’m surprised that most folks here think it’s normal, which def makes me want to give this a chance
That's a red flag, you should clarify what does he mean by exciting? Ask his long term goal..I bet if he is explicitly looking for young women , he will leave if he gets chance to score a mid twenties chick.
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7 year gap is nothing. Do what makes you happy.