I am in a relationship with a girl who is 12 years younger to me. I am 35 and take care of my body and health. I regularly go to gym. We started off well and sexual chemistry was too good. It in fact still is pretty good. But I am worried that this won’t last and so I am trying to drift away. At this age I want to marry and have kids. She doesn’t talk much on getting married but conveys she loves me. What should I do ? I want to know from a women’s and men’s perspective. Is this all physical love ? Will it fade quick ? As she is young she is not understanding or am I manipulating her? Should I marry her if she says yes ? Isn’t it too early for her ? I ask this as some of my female friends tell me that they should have waited before getting married and tell me that it was very immature of them. Should I bother about all this or just go with the flow ? I had two failed relationships and so I don’t want to invest too much emotionally.
Dude. You are over thinking this. Don't over invest and take it from there. My fiance is 10 years younger. Decided to hang up my bachelor belt at 37. Wasn't looking for it but it found me
She’s early 20’s, it’s too early for her. You’ll end up getting married, having a few kids and by the time she is your age she will be climbing the walls to get out and experience life. She’s too young!
My GF is 14 years younger than I am. Difference is, I’m 42. She in her late 20’s, has partied, has established her career and now is looking to slow it down.
Late 20s is very different than early 20s, people grow/change and become adults in their 20s.
LOL, that gap is nothing. If you want to see real age gaps come to LA and walk around.
Yah I should find a job in LA then 😊
Do you only like her because she’s young?? That’s gross...
Talk to her and figure out what you as a couple want.
You hsve to ensure that she's read and wants the same thing no matter the age. Some girls are more mature than others and some aren't. You just have to aligned with her
I would like to hear a story of a male who is in a serious relationship with someone older than them. Older men with a younger woman so cliched!
They’re all in their early 20’s
Once she’s 40 she’ll want someone in their 20s :P
My friend had the same age gap, he waited 8+ years before even entertaining the idea. Might have to wait another few more for kids. You’ll likely be in your mid 40s when that happens. Good luck.
Waiting til 40s drastically increases chance of autism. Men have an expiration date too
Ehh this is a huge risk for you. If you really like her and see potential wait until 2 years together (after initial passion has worn off) and re-evaluate.
There is nothing wrong with the age gap. Females in that age range are the best to date. Don't let any old bag, with menopausal mustache, shame or manipulate you into thinking she's too young.
Found the incel...
Yes , just go with the flow. Just be genuine and honest in your relationship.
How long have you two been together? It may be too early to discuss marriage
More then a year.