RelationshipsMar 1, 2018
OathBlondeGold

Dating divorced men/women

If you were never married and are in 20s/early 30s, would you even think of dating a divorced person of opposite sex (assuming you are straight) eventually leading to marriage. The reason is I have been getting several such invites on dating apps. Some of them even explained that their partner had deadly disease which they did not disclose etc. I usually decline them immediately even though the profile is good. What do you think? Would love to hear from divorced people on why they think a never married person would be interested in them?

Amazon Hooliganss Mar 1, 2018

I’d be hesitant I think, but not opposed right off the bat.

Amazon ⬛️DownVest Mar 1, 2018

Look into present and into future. We all have all sorts of past and as long as the person doesn’t carry/holding to heavy baggage why would you care?

Facebook banmiester Mar 1, 2018

I wouldn't care. Think of it as a long term relationship with legal implications that no longer exists. Some people have religious or social norms reason to not consider. Different story if they have a kid.

Pure Storage PSPS Mar 1, 2018

Yeah it would make it hard if they had kids. But if they don't i'm open to it.

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Facebook bookfc Mar 1, 2018

Life happens. Doesn't meant they're failures

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Intel traderking Mar 1, 2018

I'd consider it. Just make sure everything is genuine, all previous emotions are in the past, and don't rush it a single bit.

Lyft sUPA43 Mar 1, 2018

Get them to talk about their divorce. If it was only their partner's fault, run away. If they initiated divorce after having a child, run away.

Oath BlondeGold OP Mar 1, 2018

Isn’t it recommended to not talk with anyone about their past?

Lyft sUPA43 Mar 1, 2018

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F5 Networks UrMomma Mar 1, 2018

When you get up past your mid 20s / early 30s the ones that are still single and haven’t been married is a red flag. Something is wrong with this person or they would have gotten married. I would hesitate to date a woman who has never been in a long term relationship.

Amazon MaybeBezos Mar 3, 2018

Long term relationship != marriage.

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kiev123 Dec 15, 2019

It means they are smart, aka not a Disney brainwashed dummy, how is that a red flag?

CareerBuilder hdanon Mar 1, 2018

Yes, I would have

Intuit VGhl56 Mar 1, 2018

If they don't have any children I would consider it.