Anyone else in here who finds the concept of dating weird? No, I am not talking about getting or not getting enough matches. I am talking about this entire dating scene being a 'let me impress you so I can get laid' game. Real life relationships seem like relationships to me in true sense.
You can aim lower or try to improve yourself. Remember dating and TC are not very related. A woman decides in 7 seconds if she will have sex with you subconsciously. You may need to start doing lots of activities you do not enjoy. 😉
Be impressive enough that others try to impress you to get laid.
Yeah, I don't like it. Was kinda awesome to meet cute and fall in love as I learned more. Maybe I am biased against it because I suck at dating.
@nicebot, if this was sarcasm you have made good progress!
Thanks. It is half true, half sarcasm.
Getting to know someone you find attractive and like and want to spend time with, is great. What sucks is modern dating, whereby we are all looking for the next shiny object.
Thanks. Finally someone understood my point.
What do you propose instead? Coding interviews?
Screw dating just get a cat 🐱. Cats are great companions and very amusing. Meow 🐈
You also need to be banned, just like 5'6 Indian
😾 *scratches you with claws*
Watch any wildlife documentary. Most lifeforms on this planet are subject to lame mating rituals.
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What I’ve never understood is the “dating multiple people” thing that seems to be popular in US. Like actually scheduling forced interactions with multiple candidates like you’re business networking or something. So weird.
I mean, given monogamous relationship takes a good few years out of your life, what else can one do before committing to one?
I don’t like dating or the games...it’s exhausting...but I like being in a relationship
Are you ugly?
If this is what you are asking, you definitely didn't get my point correctly
So basically, yes. It's ok OP - you're not alone