Dating in NYC?
So according to every post on Blind, NYC is the mecca for single guys since getting dates is so easy any day of the week. According to every post on /r/nyc, dating is terrible since everyone is busy and flaky AF. So which is it? Let's assume I'm looking for an actual relationship (short term is fine to begin with), not just a million dates to hook up with. Is NYC just Tinder paradise with no hope of anything more meaningful?
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Easy. Beautiful women that are so jaded bc they get treated like crap are bountiful. I swing so out of my league here.
But do the good ones stick around?
I haven't had a problem .. mostly it's the guys who get flaky, not the girls.
Hey. Don't worry. Most women out there are looking for long term relationship. It mostly depends on the things the guy do. Things showing you want to be comitted, then we start falling for you. Since you work at Facebook it also shows you are smart tgat can attract many potential dates. But I wouldn't mention it on the profile. Being a well round person with a view on the world is important. Online dating is very competitive. If the guy is overweight I wouldn't go on a date with him for example. Having muscles and intelligence is sexy. Best of luck.
Why not mention FB? I'm not gonna make it the center of my life obv, but pretty much every app has a work field.
IMHO if a guy tries to sell himself with such advertisement it turns me off.
FB isn’t sexy anymore .. one of the most evil companies .. Mention you work for Salesforce on the other hand 😉
That's the joke
Philip Morris is cool
New York is an amazing city to date in - but there is also competition so you need to be a decent, clean, and a well composed human. My success in New York was mostly based on that I spread a lot of good energy when I partied and I always had fun people around me. Relax, smile, and have fun! The girls will come! I personally didn’t find it hard at all to get second dates.
Dating in New York is easy and fun. Relax a bit, don't be creepy, and remember that first dates are actually incredibly low stakes. Have a good time :).
Finding the right person for you is hard but not impossible. In the meantime, you can get lots of dates with women who are already dating a ton of people and sleeping with a few. They’re still unfulfilled and have practically become professional eaters** who treat dating like shoe shopping, so they keep dating. All they can bring to the table in most cases is that they love food and they love to travel. Pretty deep, huh? Incapable of emotional or intellectual connection. **Edit: I meant to type “professional daters” not eaters. Didn’t correct it because it’s funny and true.
NYC women are trash and have shi* for brains. You can do better bro!
You can get endless first dates…but those come with a high cancel rate
This. If you want to have a bunch of good first dates with beautiful women and get ghosted afterwards nyc is the best