RelationshipsNov 8, 2023
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Did I make the right call?

Wife saw me close out of social media and asked the see it. I refused and pulled away from her, logging out. She started attacking me physically that I was cheating. The fight followed into the bedroom where she attacked me more (scratches on neck, etc.) Now I have to take her on some vacation costing $6K. Toxicity aside, did I make the right choice by falling on the sword? I was talking and exchange nudes with several girls and it probably woulda been the end of our marriage. PS: yes I fucked in and shouldn’t have been talking to those girls, but I don’t feel like I deserve to get physically hurt TC: $350K

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Financial Service Company iamconfuse Nov 8, 2023

With that English, you were most likely exchanging nudes with Rajesh!

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htyug Nov 8, 2023

OP is Rajesh

Atlassian Luffy, M.D Nov 8, 2023

The twist; Rajesh is catfishing himself

Apple FK_APPLE Nov 8, 2023

You know you are going to do it again. Learn better techniques to hide next time

Amazon WD--400 OP Nov 8, 2023

Dude I was just thinking about this today…

Amazon RNF Nov 8, 2023

Physical abuse shouldn’t be excused. Report her. Cheating might push her to get divorce; so be prepared to pay half your NW (see it as the price you pay for nudes on internet). In summary, both of your actions deserve consequences.

Amazon WD--400 OP Nov 8, 2023

Not really interested in going down that long and painful road if I can avoid it…

Google khlj Nov 8, 2023

Rajesh, it is worse than cheating. It is just lame. Your wife feels cheated and thinks if given the right opportunity you'll cheat. You're lame. Sorry for that. Most likely there is some random dude who jerks off on your nudes and hides behind the girl's photo. This is a good scenario. It can be worse and you may be blackmailed by scammers.

Meta soccerberg Nov 8, 2023

You deserve each other

Google GG🎮 Nov 9, 2023

You actually found your perfect match. People in your life - you get what you deserve.

AstraZeneca newus7777 Nov 9, 2023

Your wife isn't very smart. A smart woman would have figured it out without needing to confront you and wouldn't be satiated with a stupid vacation. Well, you are going to do whatever you can get away with, so no point in any advice. Your best outcome from this is turning into a psychopath and not trusting anyone, worst is having your life fall apart and humiliation. Basically nothing good is coming out of your indulgences.

Oracle JDutton Nov 9, 2023

Wife needs to lawyer up and take you to the cleaners. She deserves better. Get therapy.. you are a broken man.

LinkedIn oEoc64 Nov 9, 2023

Physical abuse is way worse than sending nudes or even cheating. What a disaster on both sides.

Block bluskii Nov 9, 2023

Lol you’re a tool dude