Finding a bf in Bay Area (gay)
I have job offers from two companies. One of them is in Cupertino and the other is in Seattle. I am currently in Seattle. In the next two years, I am planning to find a boyfriend and get settled. Which of these places will be a better choice to find one? My thinking is that Seattle is a proper city and will probably be easier to find one. Cupertino is a suburb and I may not get a chance to meet a lot of people. What would you do? PS : I am 26, Indian.
But I always hunted and loved it
You’ll be fine either city, you’ll most likely meet your future bf on apps
Good to know there are gay Indian people in states. I am 23, let’s meet up. PS. Indian too
I'm joining Apple too :)
I used to work at Apple, not there anymore
Honestly, it depends on how you look. Also, I have lived in both the cities and Bay area is by far the worst if you want to settle down(even worse for gays). I would say Seattle is just a tad little better and less crazy guys. But if you willing to do open relationship, bay area should be your home. Everyone is very accepting about that there
Are you going to commute from the castro or try to live in Cupertino?
Planning to live in Cupertino
Stay in Seattle then. Silicon Valley gays are the rejects of society. I’d rather stay single than try to date someone down that way. Deeply closeted, most living with parents (even 30 year olds). Not dating material.
SF/Bay Area without question! It will be your adventure universe! As with any dating advice (hetero/gay/bi), get fit enough and dress well and you'll rule the 🌎. 👍
Just curious. Would your parents be fine with it?
#juststereotypethings
It's going to be hard to convince. But I don't think they'll disown me for being gay. They want me to be happy.