RelationshipsMay 19, 2018
GoogleRuthless

First date. Lots of laughter. Went for the kiss. Got rejected.

First date. Made her laugh all the way, and she's very willing to laugh at my jokes. Sent her to back to her car in the end and went for the kiss after she got off my car. She rejected and said she's afraid of her coworker seeing us cause it's her office building. Well it was 11:50 pm on a Friday. After she went home she texted me saying she's safely back home and thanked me for everything. I simply said good night. She said good night. This is a person that I had a good time with. This is a person who I was attracted to. This is also a person who has no problem turning me down. So now my question to you all is, should I accept the reality, and move the f*** along. Not planning to contact her unless contacted first. Don't know if I'm really doing the right thing. I post here just want to get some good advice. You guys are smart people. Some of you especially in relationship.

Cisco psalm May 19, 2018

just ask for a second date and go for the kiss then

Juniper SkankHnt42 May 19, 2018

that would make too much common sense. lemme check with blind.

Yahoo Lord Vader May 19, 2018

Second date. Are you quitting already? Come on!

Plaid jkY52hG May 19, 2018

Dude stop being a drama queen lmao just ask her out on a 2nd date and see where things go

Oracle moeā€™s art May 19, 2018

Not a slut. Check. Now proceed to that second date!

Axtria keep_calm May 19, 2018

Why would she proceed with a guy-slut šŸ™„

New
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Because they dependable put out

Amazon SHA256 May 19, 2018

Lol this kid

Google Ruthless OP May 20, 2018

Hi

Facebook didntgetit May 19, 2018

If you liked her, ask her out again. You could be and probably are interpreting correctly, but maybe some Cosmo reading friend of hers insisted that she should "play hard to get"

Tinder meowimacat May 19, 2018

If she is playing hard to get he shouldn't waste his time with her

Microsoft etOA87 May 19, 2018

Coming from the tinder employee lol

Apple Marijuana May 19, 2018

The reason doesnā€™t matter. Donā€™t get attached. Ask if sheā€™d like another date, but also go on other dates.

Google Ruthless OP May 19, 2018

Always have other dates bro. Thanks.

Google gnic May 19, 2018

I hope you didn't pay for the date. Never do that. If you did and she calls again, ask where is she bringing you, and make sure she pays. Move along otherwise

Twitter Onceaday May 19, 2018

Depends what race is she and Americanized or not? In Asia the guys are expected to pay for the girls all the time even if itā€™s just friends.

Google Ruthless OP May 19, 2018

We both East Asian. I paid. She offered to pay and I turned that down.

Google Ruthless OP May 19, 2018

I'll wait for Wednesday and ask her out again. Thanks for all the comments above. Really appreciated you all.

Google gnic May 19, 2018

Don't. Stupid move that will qualify you as a desperate doormat. You paid for dinner and entertained her. Her turn now

Google Ruthless OP May 19, 2018

Thanks for calling it out. Your advice is closer to my intuition. I'll go along. Thank you.

Goldman Sachs Vroooom May 19, 2018

Maybe she didn't find you cute enough to kiss on the first date but sounds like she liked your company. Keep her engaged by texting her and ask her on second date.

Google gnic May 19, 2018

If this is really the case, she will sleep with you for the money, as a plan B. Until she finds her plan A