Been dating my partner for 2 years, living together for the last 6 months. These last few months I'm getting very impatient and frustrated at how messy she leaves the house. Before you jump on me for not doing household chores, I do more than my fair share. I do the dishes, mop the house twice a week, make sure none of my clothes are lying around the house... AND work a 10 hour job. My partner is a stay at home gf and all I ask of her is to put her shoes away, don't leave clothes around, don't leave empty Amazon boxes around, to not leave a million make up products on the counter, close the closet door after you use it, etc. She feels that pointing out these things is condescending. She also doesn't want me to hire a maid because she "doesn't want lifestyle inflation" I know a blind post is not going to help and I need to communicate more but I'm just typing this to rant. Might delete later.
How big of a deal is this issue in the big scheme of things?
She should be doing the housework
Move out, tell her you can’t live together until she behaves like a normal healthy functioning adult.
Dude.. don’t cry
Kick her out asap, she will continue to be a leech. Wtf is a stay at home Gf?
How’s the sex and bjs? If that is often and solid, worth it imo
Been there. You should get out of this relationship asap. You will eventually, just a matter of time and suffering you will endure first. These people don’t change unless they want to and she’s taking advantage of you.
Tell her to clean up or get a job.