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Previous post: https://www.teamblind.com/post/hYfevi8D?cid=17676156 We're seeing a couples therapist and overall the relationship has had problems. Though many times its pretty smooth and easy, there's cracks to where I don't know. She kind of doesn't see it or pretends not to see it. My spouse doesn't work which is a point of contention for me as I feel its unfair I work all day while she's on IG. Well, she has her own business, but it loses money every year. Anyways, she's 34 (I'm 37) and we've been talking about baby possibility and now pushing to that we need to have one now. Today, she's like that its a perfect time to try otherwise astrological wise it'll be a different astrology sign. This is stressing me out and I don't think she gets it. I don't feel ready and I feel she does this where she pushes/pressures me. I told her before that we need to work out stuff in therapy.
Child support gonna be expensive
What’s IG?
self.reproduce()
Makes sense since it has no arguments
But I hope there is a return 🤡
Bye Felicia
She is probably anxious to have kids before her eggs are old and harder to conceive. I suggest you guys freeze eggs (not embryo) and use the time now to sort out how you want to raise kids, Live together and also discuss money stress. If it is just on your income alone, will you still want kids. Will you resent her for the rest of her life for not wanting to work. How will you respect her. You can’t change her. You can only understand your baseline and her baseline and see if you can make it work. As a woman, by 34 and having heard how hard it could be to conceive, I get the urgency
best advice here. sounds like she's frustrated and stressed out. this is the best way to buy time to sort things out without adding to her anxiety
She doesn't want to go through hormone or egg therapy. If it doesn't work then it doesn't work. It's just my income and I feel resentment toward her already. When I try to express that to her, she blows up at me, and turns it around to make it my fault for feeling that way. I probably wouldn't mind as much if we could discuss these things. Usually I'm gaslit and told that I have to change my outlook on things. Like, I feel stress having one income and if I lose my job, what will do? Am I going to get another job easily?
Trying to rush having a baby based on astrology sign is probably the dumbest shit I’ve ever heard. don’t have a baby if the relationship is not going well, a baby will not fix it.
Facts. If you're a child born under a strained marriage I don't think it's gonna make as much of a difference if you're an Aquarius vs a Pisces....
Yeah totally, I get it. I'm not sure she gets how bad things are vs they're fine for her. She's getting too caught up in this astrology stuff because she has a lot of free time (since she isn't working). A bit disappointed her therapist got her into it, yet it gives her something to do.
Children won't improve your marriage.
Exactly. It will strain instead and you cannot even walk away.
totally... its a bummer she doesn't see it.
Having problem with the OP and now we want the TC.
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