I’m generally a nice person in real life and work. I have decent amount of friends and I feel they like me. But when I’m in an anonymous community (Reddit/4 Chan/steam) sometimes I make toxic and racist comments and enjoy upsetting people. Actions like that make me feel bad afterwards. Am I actually a bad person?
I do the same
Same here. It’s quite addictive lol. It’s interesting cuz I think I’m a good person too. I think my sarcasm sometimes is so advanced that even I’m confused lol
‘Toxic n racist comments’ 🙄 of course you are a bad person! I mean everybody has both bad n good sides.
Save it for when someone toxic in the community shows up. Don’t dish it to random bystanders. That’s just mean
I tell you I want to bang your mom and eat your dog and tell you I know where you live and am gonna come kill you - I tell you this in a way that makes you think I’m serious, BUT I’m not I wouldn’t actually do those things. Am I bad guy? (Yes is the answer) To answer your question: to become a nice person, you should stop doing those things that you say you do. By doing this, you may not immediately become a nice person but you will immediately become a not-awful person.
So “who am I when no one is looking?”
Lol
On scale of 1-100, how bad you will be for trolling compared to being nice in real life? Everyone behaves good and bad, more or less, intentionally or not. That one thing alone won’t make you 100% bad, so just relax and if that makes put this post take some action and try to change that habit.
Don't feed the troll
Do metta meditation everyday. It will transform your life for good
If you feel bad, try not doing it and see if it makes you feel better. I think who you are when nobody is looking is who you really are.
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