IntuitJalebi8

Husband’s instagram

Last night I checked my husband’s instagram account and found he follows so many random girls. I am so upset and mad.

project44 j47bsjj Apr 10

Both my wife and I follow attractive people on Insta. It's not a big deal, it's not like we talk to any of them. Unless he's DMing them I don't see an issue

SAP d@tks0 Apr 10

It's different when both do it vs just one. Also, you didn't quite clarify if you follow attractive people of the opposite gender for their attractiveness alone. Regardless, every couple is different, and a conversation on respect and boundaries for OP and her husband, seems to be needed.

Figure Figyoure Apr 10

Girl, stop being so insecure

Amazon gurd Apr 10

This

SAP d@tks0 Apr 10

Lol, make sure you support your partner as well, when she follows male thirst traps, @Figuoure.

Amazon Roti&Naan Apr 10

Have the convo. What's really the difference between checking people out virtually vs IRL? At least IRL, people have the balls to do it and be seen.

Intuit Jalebi8 OP Apr 10

I would not mind it but he is not looking at me !!

NVIDIA cmcnsjjxm Apr 10

Cuz you ain't as sweet as a Jalebi.

Google laviosaa Apr 10

Check his DMs. If no chat is happening then whatever.

Amazon NKDM33hegh Apr 10

Tell him you don't like it and set a boundary, if you haven't already. If he doesn't respect the boundary, then it's over

Block IfheyGyy Apr 10

Is it like public model accounts or random women he meets in passing / exes? Because I don’t care about the former … but the latter makes me uncomfortable but I don’t say anything because it means I have to explain that I scrutinize who he follows and vice versa lol

Amazon colgat3 Apr 10

Should he follow ugly people instead?

SAP d@tks0 Apr 10

Yes, or think with the brain on his head.

Amazon colgat3 Apr 10

Lol you are shitting me right?

Lucid Motors 88785 Apr 10

Leave him ASAP. Nobody deserves a suspicious spouse. Do you not check out any men?

Apple OSkn80 Apr 10

No big deal. Calm down

Amazon vBkX73 Apr 10

Talk to him please