Indian guy in my 50s here, married 20+yrs. Wife is Korean Our married life has been good overall but like all other cpls we have our issues - day to day stress/arguments over finance, her spending habit, parenting, my job stress. We have 2 teenage children who give their share of stress to us. I personally have been feeling quite low / depressed for the last mnth or so….Just career related stress and frankly speaking Blind has not really helped. Recently I had someone from the past reach out to me ….and put me in an emotional turmoil. It brought back all memories… of the days when my wife and I were dating; and eventually got married. I wrote all of that as a series of posts in here titled "How I met my wife… (Relationships)" https://www.teamblind.com/us/s/6HCrLvuH It was a deeply cathartic experience for me - to put my story out there and be vulnerable. I did it and i have to tell u … i feel good. I read my own post cpl of times and….I have fallen in love with my wife all over again. Inspite of all the stress and negativity around me, she is an oasis of happiness for me. Few days ago, my daughter said “you guys are so boring” as we were leaving our house for grocery shopping. My wife was pretty annoyed at that. This morning when we were having breakfast together I showed this kpop song to my daughter and said “mama and papa were like this once upon a time”. https://youtu.be/Y-FhDScM_2w?si=44JwOz2Xr3mcHQAm She saw like 15 seconds of the video and goes “eeeoow papa u guys r so cheesy… i dont want to see it” 🤣🤣🤣
Thanks for writing something positive here
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What is it like to be married to a Korean wife?
I dont know. Never had an Indian wife to compare with 😃. Married for so long that i forget that she is korean. Its all abt individual.
Thanks for the story OP! I read the entire series 🤣 did you show it to your wife? I really would like to hear her side of the story, and what she thinks now about you and your marriage.
No. Would be a bad idea. She wud get paranoid abt the HS girl/woman getting in touch with me. More so because one of her friend’s husband divorced after he met his High school girl. Also, like any wife she believes she is always right. The day when she acted crazy and I broke up with her, her version will be very different. Actually we talked abt it. She said i was insensitive, cold and just looking for a way out. She said she was not being neurotic… but just having a normal conversation
Yikes, for someone who cheated on their wife not very long back and are still posting about it, you sure seem a bit hollow: [Blind] Check out this post! What would you do? (Adult Life) https://www.teamblind.com/us/s/Re82qTSf
OP have you considered pitching your story to Netflix?
Bro you are so cringe.
Cool story but I have flagged because no TC