Indian women dating non Indian men

Sep 10, 2019 163 Comments

Recently broke up with Indian boyfriend. I was always closed off to the idea of dating non Indian men, but I'm 28 and I feel the pressure. Two of my friends married non Indian men and they couldn't be happier. So it makes me think. What has your experience been? Are there dating apps where you can meet people looking for serious relationships so that you can weed out the casual daters? P.S I'm from Seattle.

Also, I'm going to be trying dating apps for the first time. Any helpful advice appreciated.

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  • Hello Honey, I am from Seattle too. I am a guy but in similar boat looking to expand to non-indian women. But would love to date Indian too. Shall we meet honey?

    TC: 275K
    Sep 10, 2019 25
    • Amazon / Eng
      weeeeeeee

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      weeeeeeeemore
      Right, cultures vary by parts of the world.
      Sep 11, 2019
    • Microsoft / Consultant micrusade1
      "honey", "honey", "honey"
      Oct 2, 2019
  • Netflix / Product Thats_It
    As a white woman who is dating two Indian men, what’s the concern you have?

    One guy is American raised, the other Dubai/South Africa and lived in multiple countries as an adult.
    Sep 10, 2019 39
    • Cadence / Eng
      pretzle

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      @cmp- I will be your friend if you promise me you won't bring Poisson distribution and Hadoop cluster. Deal?
      Sep 11, 2019
    • New / Data __cmp__
      It's inherently hard to resist on love what you do.
      Sep 11, 2019
  • Can ABCDs apply 😉
    Sep 10, 2019 8
    • 😂😆🤣 well it was worth a shot guys 😎
      Sep 10, 2019
    • T-Mobile
      -matrix-

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      -matrix-more
      Lol. Indian marriages are more like a job interview lol.
      Sep 13, 2019
  • Walmart pingpongl4
    Im white, my first girlfriend was Indian. It was good.

    People are just people though. It doesn't matter
    Sep 10, 2019 2
    • Microsoft Dshxfgv
      OP
      Thank you. I'm looking for advice on how/where to approach non Indian guys or let them know I'm available. Are there dating apps for people wanting to be in a long term relationship?
      Sep 10, 2019
    • Walmart pingpongl4
      Try Hinge
      Sep 10, 2019
  • Microsoft whatdidyou
    Join a hobby club. Don’t read comments here posted by other Indian men. Dancing club (eg salsa or swing) is the way to go. People full of passion and emotion. Don’t join geeky clubs and expect to find a date.

    Also 28 is prime age for dating outside of a few countries. Where I am from (S Korea), college bound women typically marry at 30-38.

    If you are open to Asians, they are very interested in dating other races too. I know a several Korean and Taiwanese guys who married to middle east or Indian women (have kids now). They met while studying in grad school.

    I also saw a Blind post where a white guy was looking to date an Indian woman.
    Sep 10, 2019 11
    • EY BL23
      @eifa03 are you a M or a F?
      Sep 14, 2019
    • Amazon jQpf16
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      Sep 16, 2019
  • Flagged by the community.

    • Amazon / Eng
      weeeeeeee

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      What value is there in keeping “Indian Indian”?
      Sep 10, 2019
    • New NidI04
      Idiots accusing the OP of racism can shut up!

      Indians are the most racist people on the planet. And someone says she doesn't want to date Indian, these scoundrels are screaming of racism.
      Sep 13, 2019
  • Rivian sgSclx
    As a non Indian guy - desi girls 😍
    Sep 10, 2019 2
    • Roku
      roku🚀

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      “As an non”? You are Indian
      Or may be “as an naan”
      Sep 10, 2019
    • Rivian sgSclx
      Lol sorry - Blind lacks auto correct and I’m fat fingered from all the beer today.
      Sep 10, 2019
  • Google / HR
    nedo

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    Why don’t you like Indian men? And what is it about white men that interest you?
    Sep 10, 2019 8
    • Intel help!
      Amazon: this sounds so north/west Indian 🤣
      Sep 22, 2019
    • Amazon mmmehhhh
      That sounds like a Southern White guy.
      Oct 12, 2019
  • Tinder trolol
    I think the key is to date an American guy, not necessarily any particular race. Americans have low expectations of our women compared to Asian cultures and you'll feel more relaxed.
    Sep 10, 2019 4
    • Tinder trolol
      So that really depends, there's obviously a spectrum there. I can tell you personally the men I know would run if you mentioned relationship in the first couple weeks, unless they are desperate. You have to take it slow and let it grow naturally.

      Don't be pushy, don't force him to see you. If he's not making time, move on if it doesn't feel right. Can't tell you how many times I've seen girlfriends cling to men that were clearly not interested, so if you're really looking for something serious you have to be patient but also aware of what he's looking for.

      Most men will appreciate you being upfront though.
      Sep 10, 2019
    • Microsoft Dshxfgv
      OP
      Thank you.
      Sep 10, 2019
  • Groupon AQI
    I think Indian women should stay with Indian. We have very different culture, it would be hard for Americans to understand! Eventually you run into problems, family, little traditions, religion, celebrations etc
    Sep 10, 2019 6
    • Facebook rYhu00
      Groupon she can do whatever she wants. And maybe you're slow to understand other cultures, doesn't mean she can't. Even if she does, those are her choices and her problems.
      Sep 11, 2019
    • Amazon jQpf16
      I dated many Indian men before marrying my non indian husband. The Indian men sucked. I am so much the happier that I did not marry Indian. absolutely no issues, life is a dream. dont listen to this fool, marry who you want.
      Sep 16, 2019

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