Please don’t troll. I have been seeing a guy for a year, and he is real good friends with his ex. That’s also cause they dated in school and they‘re part of a group of school friends. They dated for like 4-5 years and broke up 7 years ago, and she has a boyfriend. They call each other at times and do exchange texts. I know I am probably being unreasonable but I kinda do feel jealous at times, but I just want to make peace with this fact and not let it bug me.
4 are in secure. You, him, her and her BF :D
Not at all, and you probably should know without asking this question
I’m good friends with a lot of my exes. I try to avoid talking too much with them during times that I am staring to date someone else - I know people can get the wrong idea. But a friend is a friend. If my date doesn’t trust me then it’s better to end it early anyway. Why should I throw away months of my time that I spent to know a person just because we decided that we shouldn’t be a couple?
That's precisely why you should throw away that time... Relationships ending (not being a couple) is determined usually because the friendship part of the relationship didn't work. It almost never has to do with the sex. So if you two are able to be friends after all you've been through, then why not be in a relationship together? To me you remaining friends is indicative that the break up was over something trivial that could've been worked out. Maybe I'm not completely seeing your perspective. Genuinely curious what value you get out of a friendship with an ex just because you poured XX amount of time into getting to know them. Because arguably everyone's poured XX amount of time getting to know friends that still doesn't mean you HAVE to stay friends, people grow apart or friendships don't jive. So why use that argument to stay friends with an ex? Would you use the same argument with an ordinary friend?
Relationship isn't about just sex. It's about having the compatibility to share a life together. I don't have to agree with my friend on money, children, vaccinations, school, religion, where to live. I have to agree with someone I'm in a relationship with. So yes, Relationship doesn't end because of sex, and friendship doesn't suffice to keep one. However if someone's friendship material (can be trustworthy, offer perspective on my life, etc) that's also pretty rare and it's stupid to give it up. Good friends are rare.
Wow u + ur bf + ur bfs ex gf + ur bfs ex gfs bf = my imagination is running wild!
4 way is the only way you will all be happy. Currently you're being screwed. Not.physically, but because he is most likely double dipping. Has cheater written all over it
Ek ladka aur ek ladki kabhi dost nahi ho sakte
NO
He's banging her.
He’s hiding a secret family from you. Start a secret family with his best male friendo
He is cheating