Need some help with something more complex than a job
So, let me just start by saying that I embody pretty much every character of the clueless guy when it comes to girls and would appreciate some help to decipher the most frustrating question - does she like me?? Here are some things she has done. Do these mean something, anything or nothing? - we were on a trip and she wanted to wear something different. I offered my t-shirt and she happily accepted. Thing is I had worn the tshirt the same day and it was not washed. I also offered to let her keep it and she did (RIP tshirt) - she laughs at anything I say. Only putting this because I read it might mean something. - she squeezes my arm randomly. Note here: she is Colombian and I have noticed they are more touchy than say an american. She also does not mind putting her head on my shoulder - she speaks highly of me. But most times she is sarcastic because I am very sarcastic to her but we are not mean to each other. - She asks to do things but 70% of the time either we don’t follow through or she cancels. To be fair, she is in school and she has a lot of other friends too who always plan things. What do you guys think? P.S: This is in hindsight because now she is in a relationship. So 3-4 months after we started hanging out I got into a relationship. Then about 7-8 months later she got into her current relationship. I am single now.
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Dude, she did like you earlier but now consider yourself friendzoned for eternity. Even when she goes on a break, you still won't have any chance.
Why not? If she breaks up, she still won't be interested?
You had an opportunity and didn’t take it. And if she asks to do something do it - why hesitate? Check out Matt Artisan vids for tips on increasing confidence.
What is with every guy here? Worst advice I’ve ever heard, I used to be in the same situation as you, she even told me various times she had a boyfriend. I just approached her as usual and on one of our conversations I told her that I liked her a lot and that I’d like to be with her, and I knew that She might end up terminating our friendship because of what I just said but I didn’t care as I was really interested in her. Now I’m married to her :). I’d recommend you to do what you feel you want to do, life is short (and youth) and you might not get a chance again to be with her. Just take a shot, don’t try to guess whether she likes you or not, disclose your feelings towards her and hope for the best. And to the guy that said “consider yourself friend zoned” I really don’t believe in friendzone, if she doesn’t want anything to do with you then fuck it, you don’t need to be her friend, who wants to be friends with the girl that rejected you? Seriously? Show some respect for yourself and walk away if that happens, there are many many more women Edit: corrected some grammar
so what happens when another guy does the same thing to your wife, will she divorce you or just cheat 🤔
I guess you didn’t read, they were a couple only, no marriage involved. I never said she was married, I’d never do that with a married woman.
My MIL laughs at every sentence and I can say that she is a fking narcissist!
Heh?
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Here is how I read your message: "The girl I know likes me because of these multiple reasons, but I want to be reeeeaally sure, before making any steps. You know, just so I don't look like an idiot if the slightest chance of her not liking me is true." What exactly are you waiting for? She likes you, yes. Can you express your interest while still being respectful to her current bf? Yes. Will her sympathy last forever until you finally have guts to make a move too? Probably not.
So in your other post, you talk about your current girlfriend, but, here, you talk about your past, could-be one? Are you interested in both of them? Sorry, this is confusing.
I really think you should put the PS as first paragraph. I almost start writing “yeah of course she likes you” then bang! Such a surprise!