I asked out a woman who I had crush on she said no. I am feeling low for past couple of weeks and don't know if I will ever meet the one considering the demographics of Bay area. I want to increase my social circle so I can meet a woman. Where do I start? If you are a woman can we have each other shoulder to cry on?
Demographics matter. Move to Washington DC, New York or San Diego. May the odds be ever in your favor.
Moving out is not an option right now.
Lower your bar
The bar will exist if I meet women.
I think he meant that you've to further lower it... Be ok with men 🤣🤣
Make friends with coworkers who are the social type. Have respect for non-tech workers
Expanding on this: your new friends and new coworkers will help you with meeting new people.
Everyone is married in the team. Time to change jobs.
I can tell from your post that you have no game whatsoever. A shoulder to try on, really? And then you wonder your crush rejects you? Please. There are a ton of tourists coming to SF every single day and tourists love to fool around. Meet them in person at touristy spots. Game is much easier, shooting fish in a barrel. No bueno with one girl, walk 10 feet and there is another. Start with that. www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill Begin with top posts of all time, read the side bar.
At least you tried, that counts. Next time if you get another no, should be easier. Even if you are in an area with fewer women, there are still some. Go to places where they are. Happy hunting
Tinder or cold approach you talking about
Keep trying! I don’t even have the courage
You can do it.
OP at least you tried. You won’t ever lament “why didn’t I ask that girl out when I had the chance?” Now you have closure and can move on and find someone else who will hopefully accept you. Honestly the trick is dating a lot. Don’t be too choosy to start and just practice. If you wait to ask out your dream girl and you haven’t dated much before you could fuck it up. You will also get a good feeling for what you *do* want in a woman so when you recognize her you will make all the right moves. You wouldn’t interview for your dream job right off the bat would you? No! You would practice with some lower tier companies first and practice; maybe one of them will end up being good for you, but you’re ok if they aren’t. Same principle here. Practice makes better (not perfect). Good luck.
Thank you!
OP, take a trip to Thailand. You will thank me later. Make use of your PTO wisely.
I second this. Bali and Ubud too :) traveling makes you forget pain.
I only develop crushes on people I’ll never ask out or try to date. Then it’s fun and harmless and no rejection!
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Women, help me understand why this is inspirational
If you are not mostly composed of stock from a Eurasian ethnicity, then we are all hopeless together. Sharp wit, charming character and interesting/active personality means nothing to them.
? I think he’s talking about male / female ratio demographics
It’s because we are both Papuan.