So I recently downloaded the tinder app in hopes of finding a significant other. Ive been using the app for a couple of days but unfortunately still no luck. Something which keeps me motivated to keep swiping is the tab which says how many people liked me. After about 500 swipes and still no luck I quickly came to realize that the number of people who liked me is NOT CHANGING at all. Does this mean that people who liked me aren’t coming up in my feed which forces me to buy tinder gold for $14.99 a month in order to match with those girls? If so, thats a major flaw in the algorithm and is super scammy.
Get off Tinder and go to a bar / club.
Which bar is good in Bay Area
What if OP doesn't drink
Go to a Meetup, better to meet people with similar interests face to face, can’t get chemistry match from online either.
Who are brown?
Idk if Stopmiring is being racist but on these apps if you look similar to a lot of other users using the app you’re less likely to be noticed. It’s just a disadvantage of using online tools - the only things people reaaally judge on is picture and name, maybe your profile description. In that sense, being homogenous with the plurality/majority is a disadvantage.
Well assuming you avoid the solid advice of going out instead of tender, delete and recreate. You may have saturated your ability to show up on others feeds
How do people pick up at bars?
Me and my friends at the table doing shots Drinking fast and then we talk slow Come over and start up a conversation with just me. And trust me I'll give it a chance now
I see. Thanks!
Look up how the algorithm works. It tries to keep people “in their league”. Probably has to do with who you’ve swiped, who’s swiped on you, and who you’ve matched with. Take more flattering photos, rewrite your bio, be more selective in swiping (but also more realistic) and try again.
^^ seriously pic is probably the most important deciding factors, make sure you have good profile photos
If you're serious about finding a significant other you'll need to create a strategy. Tinder should only be a part of said strategy; never the whole thing. Go to meetups, bars, the gym, events....anything that suits your interests. That's where you'll find like minded people. Worst case scenario, you make some new friends. Who, in turn, can introduce you to more cool people /potential partners. Use tinder as a complimentary component. Also...pay the 14.99. Especially if you live in a big city because the unlimited swipes will go a long way.
Do you even lift?
Tinder is a go to place to find sex
Bullshit. It's a place where desperate males throw cash at the screen in hopes of compensating for their genetic failure.
All those apps have a shit ton of bots. Go to bars.
Can’t find an app name bars? iPhone or android ?
Blackberry.