I am tired of proving myself again and again. Showing how awesome I am by doing hard and smart work. Begging people for opportunities that they are not giving me. I never feel unworthy but I keep getting passed on for the best of positions. I am DE manager at Meta. I am done feeling like a second class citizen in product teams. I made wrong career choice early on by not going for SWE role at the beginning and getting penalized for it even 13 years down the line still. TC: 350k
Fuck them. Your mental health is not worth anything.
Still gotta pay bills and immigrant so cannot walk away until i decide to just walk away for good
I hear you. May be start preparing to leave or find another team. Don’t take this stuff personally. You’re strong. Keep you head high and f them when the time I s right.
Data engg manager?
This is literally how it is for everyone. Not just women. Politics get worse the higher up you are. Learn to play the games, stop complaining about the rules. Or better yet, make your own rules. No one forcing you to stay at faang
Agreed, the farther up you go, the messier and meaner it all becomes.
Literally 90% of men will not make it and this snowflake is complaining she is not getting the red carpet treatment.
I am a male and I still feel like a second class citizen lmao should have taken another career route lol
what is your job profile?
Business analyst
What is DE? And why would SWE be better?
Meta money don't cry
It must suck to go through that experience. Nothing to say.. I hope you feel better!
I guess it all depends on the company's culture. And especially these days most or none of the faang companies are gaining a good reputation in that sector.. and probably why I see a lot of people moving away from faang and going into startups.
Yeah, I am done trying to move internally to better role. will start working on exit strategy and feel human again. I learned a lot and grew a lot but it was a long stressful time at this company.
Wanna recruit before moving out, I will be start my prep 🫣
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