Had one relationship, broke up. Didn’t find anyone else after yet. Been a year.
Even if you worry, you still stay single. If you think it this way, then what is the point of worrying?
Move away from Sausagecisco or Sausageattle
U mean SF and Seattle ? :p
I've heard of Man Francisco, not Sausagecisco. But still cool to hear
The harder you try the more desperate you seem. This gives opposite result to what you desire. Find your chill, be cool with people around you, don't play someone you're not - just be yourself, especially if there's someone you like. You'll be alright.
Same boat
There’s no such thing as “the one”. With nearly 8 billion people in the world, each individual has tens of millions of other individuals who they could be compatible with. You just need to find ONE of them and make a connection. If something doesn’t work out with one, for any number of reasons, then there are millions of others who will make you equally happy. I myself am very happily engaged and in love, however I’m not so delusional that I believe my fiancé is the only individual in this world who I could have a happy and fulfilling relationship with. She simply happens to be one of the millions who I am compatible with. Since the two of us have a deep connection, I’ve decided that I don’t want to consider any others anymore. But that doesn’t mean that others don’t exist who could be great as well!
You make it sound very easy. Then what is the entire.... err almost blind whining about..
I guess they aren’t playing the game right? 🤷🏼♂️ It’s a game of large numbers...don’t act desperate as if every potential opportunity is a “make it or break it” kind of ordeal. Just talk to lots of girls at any given time and see where it goes. I’ve been with/dated dozens of them and it’s not worth putting in real effort until you’ve dated them a while and realize that she’s one worth investing in. Until then, keep your options open and be casual/non-desperate about it.
Sometimes it takes a year or two of not dating to realize what you want and to recognize her when she comes along. It happened to me years ago when I met my wife. It may seem like darkness now but use the time to think deeply about the career you want and the woman you want to build a life with. When you have that answer put yourself out there and you’ll find her.
THIS. Got out of a relationship recently. Looking back things werent ideal. This one failed relationship shed much needed light into the person that I am and the sort of person I would like to live a life with. The worst thing anyone could do is think with their dicks and get into a bad relationship. But one needs to go through a shitty relationship to appreciate when the proper person comes along.
How old were you when you met your wife?
Increase your TC. Everything else will follow.
Not true
money buys happiness
Gender, tc, yoe, attractiveness?
How about NOT working at Amazon? That should help make you more... accessible. LOL
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Worry less, have more fun. Once you stop worrying the relationships will come.
Or they won’t
Maybe but either way desperation is one of the largest turn offs there is.