does that include not suggesting split with venmo or any other means of sharing (rotation, for example)
Holy Fck really?
TC? Sounds like it’s needs to improve some so you stop whining like a little biatch
Don’t you have an impending PIP to worry about?
Nice comeback Bloomberg
I think most men take a woman offering to pay or insisting on paying her way to indicate she's not interested
Even in 2019? I'm not saying this to be snarky. I haven't dated in a while and this surprises me.
Woman here: I think many women think not offering to pay is a negative against them and will make the man like them less
Did you mean reach for the caulk?
If she doesnt reach for the check, hope she reaches for something else to repay. If she doesnt reach for anything, don’t bother going on a second date
Scenario 1 - she's hot af, it's all good I'll grab the bill and so I have higher chance to secure follow up dates Scenario 2 - she's all right, I'll still grab the bill and see where it goes....it's just one meal who cares Scenario 3 - you know you won't see her again, then wait until she offers to pay and split it
Bingo. It’s an efficient market.
If you wanna save money then stay home. Never go to expensive dinner for first date. Go get a drink only, and of course you pay for her drink? OP seems like you are very inexperienced. Don't go for long fancy dinner or movies for the first few dates, that's risking too much time. And don't hurry off and drive her to watch the sunset or make her listen to your music either. Go to a fun place where there are many mini activities so you can have some control of the experience, and make sure you two are having fun. As soon as the fun starts to wear off, end the date on a funny joke, don't wait for her to ask to leave. There's more to it but you have to get past the issue you have with splitting check. Women only put up with the cheap guys if they need something from them. They'll come back if they had fun, even if you only spent $20 bucks.
Ugh... “inexperienced”. It seems like you’re assuming garbage and running with it like it’s real life. And you don’t get it. I don’t give two fucks about spending money when I’m enjoying myself and in good company. I still think it’s skanky when my date scratches her nose when the check arrives and definitely won’t text her unless she is so smoking hot that I don’t care if she’s a terrible human being. What do your matches look like?
In that case put what you just said in your profile and see how many matches you'll get. And get higher TC to not worry about covering the whole $20 check
I will offer to pay. However, I will insist on paying if I am not interested in the guy at all.
So you're using insisting on paying to signal quite a lot.
Thank you for sharing!
Why is this still a thing? How can you not offer to split?
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What asshole male doesn’t grab it first?
Asshole?
Yeah, you are an asshole if you are a dude and don’t grab the check.