I need some advice; my boyfriend of three years is in constant contact with his ex-girlfriend; he told me it’s only via social media, and I shouldn’t feel threatened. But I also noticed during a road trip she called a few times, and when I asked him about it, he told me he let her know where he was going just in case there was an accident so she could reach out and contact his friends/family so someone can look out for him. This was the last straw and it really hurt my feelings, but he’s brushing it off as if I’m insecure. Any advice?#relationships #dating
Oh poor your sweet heart, he is not your boyfriend, you’re the side piece . Please go find yourself a real boyfriend. I hope all the best happen to you 🥹
Pip him
He is ducking her on the side or is planning to.. ask for his phone and check the messages. Or just pip him and date me instead while you find the next person suitable for the position.
Please dump him.. this is bs behavior
Thank you, everyone. I appreciate you sharing your opinions. You are all right; this behavior is unacceptable. I stayed in the situation because I was unaware that he was still in contact with her. I thought being friends was possible, but I didn't realize how dependent they were on each other.
You should leave him in silence so he can’t gaslighting you anymore. He didn’t tell you. You don’t have to tell him you’re dumping him. Just go out live yourself and find something else.
i was "the ex" that a dude was constantly in touch with. He is using both of you and he has zero ethics. He is selfish and just wants validation and loves woman fighting over him.
You give him security (someone he can always come home to ), she gives him validation, excitement. Why else would he be in constant contact with her? Prioritize yourself.
Someone who is in constant contact with their ex while being in another relationship, is a 🚩🚩. Why did you even tolerate this for three years? Please have some self-respect and lay down boundaries or find someone who will respect yours.