So I am one of those short asian guys. I am not even one of the popular types you see in western culture, so as we know, two and a half strikes against me. Few dates. Anyway, i’ve been kinda seeing this girl and i guess she seems interesting and smart (phd, likes music, published papers in journals etc. ) so we have a lot to talk about. After a bunch of dates, she wants to come over for dinner and movie (wink wink etc). Anyway that was sunday. I spent the entire day cleaning up ‘cause i never get company. Went shopping. Prepared stuff. Finally, i made dinner, played some some songs on my guitar, and she was so into it... and then a lot of stuff happened and we got naked... and i was so tired and fell asleep! Anyway she just woke me up at like 5am “i am going home before traffic gets bad”. There you go... something you can laugh about. I almost got laid.
That’s genuine. Tell this to her, she will appreciate your effort and for sure agree with you for another date. This time eat at restaurant then netflix and chill dude
This. She will probably respect you more for owning it. If not, go get another girl.
Next time try having a cup of coffee after dinner lol
Might have lost her with that one
She was probably disappointed. Try to make up for it
😍😍phD😍😍
You should be glad that you are not short indian guy.
Stop taking a shit on Indians.
I am not. Only on the short ones :). Being one myself, I have this one liberty lol.
You got naked and then fell asleep? LOL. Well ok! Man hit her up again and definitely order take out, some wine and Netflix. Or better yet when she walks in the door next time, give her that long hug, make out, get right to it, have sex and then go eat your take out.
I'll share my story. I've met a girl, we had sushi, met her friends, walked in the park, had some drinks. By the time we arrived at my place I was so tired that I just lay on my bed. She unzipped my pants and started doing blowjob, but I still fell asleep for few minutes. She said she needs to go home and I have never met her after that, but I still find it hilarious after 10 years. Don't sweat it.
Haha that's a awesome story. Too bad she never came back for you to finish the job. Haha funny.
I’ve been here before where you put the woman on a pedestal and put in so much effort you were too tired. You will most likely recover from this but your next move is crucial. Be chill. Explain that you were so excited for the date that you woke up early and cleaned and made a big production (don’t spend time explaining this. Give the very quick version. You put in a lot of effort.) so you were exhausted and apologize for falling asleep. Don’t apologize for falling asleep and not being able to have sex. Just the falling asleep part. Tell her you’d like to see her again. She will almost definitely be interested in going again. She’s probably disappointed and wondering what she did wrong. Potentially even feeling inadequate and like you didn’t like her because you fell asleep. So casually explaining you the above will put her mind at ease. Congrats!
Congrats, you're doing better more than probably 75% people here :p
Dude, that’s awesome though! Progress is progress, and it sounds like you met an awesome woman! Grats!