How do we peacefully compromise? TC 320
Therapist
Are there gender fluid therapists?
^Most therapists see people about gender & sex issues - or else they would be losing a decent clientele base. From the question, I’m kind of thinking you want 2 different therapists 1) Your internal thoughts 2) Relationship guidance It would be most beneficial to separate those 2 topics either between sessions or entirely different professionals.
The trick is not to get upset over the emotions talking.
Maybe actually communicate with each other
God you're smart
Talk to each other? My last relationship was also similar where I always try to make logical decisions while my gf often made emotional decisions due to temper. We always talked these things through and she always loved that I could explain my point of view logically while understanding and respecting why she made a decision. In the end, we tended to go with my decisions but she was happy doing so almost always because she was convinced or she had calmed down by the end of the discussion.
Yes... talking ... anything else? 😭
why did that relationship end? Sounds like she has patience and a good listener, guys would kill for that
besides telling her your pov, maybe try to listen and come to a win win solution? If you do insist on your solution being better, you should at least make her feel listened and tell her that you are making this decision for the greater team, not just for yourself
Check on not insisting on my solution being best... but hard to compromise when we don't agree on the facts
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Let her have her way in the small decisions. She’ll let you have yours in the big ones.
This totally works. I can testify as a girl 🤣
This works to a point. Some decisions are large enough to be made jointly (relocation, very large purchases, etc) but otherwise correct. My wife of 16 years and I do something similar to this and it works well for us.
Give some examples of conflicts. Would be easier to understand and suggest
Have clarity on your non negotiables and everything else is discussion and compromise
Not by asking strangers on Blind!