Have times changed and we need to evolve? I am observing infidelity on rise. Wether married, single or attached. I travel a lot and run into strangers either at bars or via dating apps and once they realizes that you won’t judge them they do open up. When they open up either they turn out to be attached or dating multiple people without significant others consent . Are these humans evil ? I don’t agree . The ones I met these women were genuine sincere and nice human beings but they are in such mess either due to financial or emotional reasons . I also think times are changing. As humans traditional form of relation ships don’t work and it’s high time we start embracing who were are . May be we are poly,curious, adventurous ,controlling and greedy by nature where we want traditional relationship and excitement of new ness . Don’t know how others feel but thought it be something we all can share our experiences and thoughts here .
Number 1 rule of infidels : "ejaculate and evacuate".
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Sex is fun. Humans enjoy fun. Humans enjoy sex.
I wanna hear some consultant stories. Ala that George Clooney movie Up In The Air.
Boyfriend and I are in an open relationship. Have been together for nearly 5 years. He doesn’t really have much of a drive but I do and it works for both of us. I cannot imagine being married and sleeping with the same person year after year....decade after decade....it would get so boring even with the best partner. I think monogamy works for some couples. But not for most people. It’s good to be monogamous for the first 1-2 years but after that I think it takes a toll. Especially if one person has a much higher sex drive.
How did you two open about it . What steps were taken to move fwd with it . Any jealously or friction ?
Here we go - Now you'll get DMs from all creepy dudes on blind. 😂😂
“Fidelity” is a made-up concept. Sure, it may be on the rise recently, but compared to when? People have always been polyamorous. Is it any surprise that people don’t want to bang only one other person for the rest of their lives? No wonder so many people go to marriage counseling. Polyamory not socially acceptable right now, but if it’s not hurting anyone, are poly wrong or is society wrong? Hell, even marriage is made up. It wasn’t that long ago that almost all western marriages were arranged. Choosing your own partners still doesn’t fix the fact that most “love” is actually just lust followed by pragmatic acceptance. Our closest ancestors, chimpanzees and bonobos, are polygamous. Many premodern societies were polygamous. There’s a lot of biological evidence that humans weren’t monogamous in the past either. Society needs to wake up and realize that monogamy isn’t the norm. It’s way better to wake up and smell the roses than to keep beating ourselves up for not meeting a whitewashed Disney ideal of what marriage and sexuality should be.
Ashley Madison says duh.
That site had more bots than people.
So safe to say we are at last end of marriage ? And turning into more like casual dating ?
Oh shit! The sky is blue?! Oh shut! And the water is wet?! Oh shit! OMG. But how can you tell that “infidelity on rise”? What are you comparing to?
Every girl I date seems to be dating other men and these poor guys have no clue
Do you date married girls? I guess dating around is not considered “infidelity”
#AWALT