It's been three years since we broke up. We were together three years and friends three before that. She was really my first love, and we connected in a way I have never connected with anyone before or after. I'm still in love Blind. I've been with many other people now, and it hasn't helped a bit. I still think about her every hour of every day and feel sick to my stomach. Literally have no clue what to do with my life. When we were together we'd fight often and had a kinda on again off again dynamic. It wasn't healthy most of the time, but that doesn't change the fact that the bond was so real and intense. Looking back I was immature and think I'd do better another time around with more life experience and perspective. Do I try to get her back, or do I just accept that this is how life goes, we broke up for a reason, and I should keep trying to move on. We chat every once in a while, like every six months. Stopping that might help, but at the same time it feels so good to reconnect. Fuck.
Then get her back. What’s the problem?
Do whatever makes you happy and ignore the people pretending to know things about life
TC?
Just go and try to get her back. Odd you guys still chat.
When you say you’ve been with other people, was it just a casual thing/hook up or do you mean dated others? Either way, why not try to get her back? Worst case it won’t work out but at least you’ll have closure. You won’t have this “what if” feeling lingering around
HAIL MARY, mother fucker. It’s time for you take a leap of faith by making yourself completely vulnerable. You might just get hurt, but I think it’s worth a shot. Tell her that you think she’s really dope and that you would be down to give it another go. Make sure you don’t come across like HOLY SHIT I LOVE YOU LETS BE TOGETHER!! Be low key about it. Just like hey I think you’re dope, you’re a queen unlike these thots out here, and i think we should hang out again. Nothing too serious but you know I always enjoyed your company. Now most importantly, you need to remember that getting shut down is by far the most likely outcome. If she’s as much of a queen as you make it sound like, she has her pick of a plethora of men, and is probably already involved with at least one. So steel your nerves, and prepare for the worst. But if that happens it may even bring you closure and not be such a bad thing. Good luck, you sappy, mushy piece of shit. I’m rooting for you ❤️
😅😅I like this. Be vulnerable. That’s the key to success.
+1 rooting for you op
Talk to her. See if she’s still single. Tell her how you feel. Ask her what she feels and think about it. If She says yes. Take a screenshot of this post. Keep it in your wallet. Read it everyday and treat her well. If not you got to move on with no regrets
She's not single. Frankly neither am I, though I'm not exactly in a serious relationship, just casually dating a person which I think is the same with her.
Is she in serious one? Confirm that. Make your move before it’s too late. Go go go
How many girls have you been with since you broke up? No offense bro but this post is pretty pathetic
Yeah I'm aware. Slept with five, dated two.
I mean I think you already get it but if she’s not coming to you just sort of hanging around and being her friend does absolutely no good Should probably just go no contact or if there is any minor contact obviously don’t be at all eager to reconnect. Only way for this to ever move in a positive direction with her and it also might let you move on more too. Also obviously in the meantime be seeing other girls, that really will be the most useful thing of all
Try one last time but still keep your dignity. Know when call it quits and move on.
Move on