Dating after 30s
I (34M) recently (6 months ago) moved from Europe to the US (*MINNESOTA*) for a dream job and I find the dating scene frustrating. First and foremost, I find communication to be very scarse and superficial. Getting to know someone takes frequent deep conversation. It's hard to build a relationship when texts are answered 2 days later. Then I'm having a problem with the looks of the women my age. On the one hand, women >30 don't take care of themselves, physically speaking. I'm relatively fit and I expect my future partner to take care of herself too. On the other hand, ever single younger women I dated is straightforward broke. I don't want to sound shallow, but is it really to much to ask someone with a decent job and salary that also take care of herself? I've been using the apps (Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, The league) but without much success. Where could I find someone to date with such characteristics?#dating #relationships #fitness TC: 120k EDIT: MN->*MINNESOTA*. For the dumbasses that are assuming I'm in SF area. It's amazing how you can type but not read properly. Isn't that taught in school here?
Dating apps have horrible male/female ratio. Like 95/5. Don't expect to find a quality girl there
women >30 don't take care of themselves (x) women >30 in your dating pool don’t take care of themselves (O) every single younger women I dated is straightforward broke (x) every single younger women who are in my dating pool is straightforward broke (O) Generally women in their 30 are financially and emotionally secure and take good care of themselves. Also there are successful and attractive women in 20 exist. If you happen to only meet broken people, you should reflect yourself.
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Way to take it personal and lash out in response. 67% of American women are overweight or obese. Having a job in your 30s and not being an utter basket case is a really low bar for taking “good care of themselves.” Now I’m not saying men are any better. They are in fact worse on average but OP claims to not be part of that group so maybe we give him the benefit of the doubt and offer constructive ways he can find someone that aligns with his own lifestyle? Just a thought.
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Dude is probably experiencing the typical dating woes of the SF Bay Area. Lol
Anyone read the post? He's living in Minnesota. Over $100k tc = drowning in the cat
Those women are trying to date 500k TC guys not 120k .
Not in Minnesota
Well they be flying to coast to get those rich ppl
Sounds like you’re dating mostly white women > broke, underemployed, majored in something stupid, woke, age easily, overweight
You are in the wrong state dude. You don’t find real attractive women in god forsaken lands, they usually grow up and find ways leave to a big city using their beauty, health, and to pursue guys who make 500k, not peanuts. Go to miami, LA, or NYC. Get a better TC.
Get a higher TC europoorbro