Dating strategies for divorced men
Hi 35m here. My divorce is currently in progress and am looking for strategies on dating. Would you reopen tinder or other dating sites or hit clubs? Tc: 406k, 9 yoe
Why are you rushing into it so soon after your divorce? Take a break. Retrospect, deal with the baggage if there is any and then start fresh. It's not like anyone is waiting for you.
Thanks.
Kids?
None
Lucky
Yes, do all of it. All the apps, clubs, parties, social events. Diversify. It's what I did and it was very successful.
Should be same as non divorced men. I'm a woman and it's absolutely fine if I'm attracted to a divorced man. People go through difficult times, especially in today's world. That doesn't mean we should see divorced men as a different species.
Thanks for the encouraging words
Clubs at 35? lol.
I was in your exact shoes 2 years ago, and I’m going to give you million-dollar advice. Follow this play-by-play: 1. Don’t jump into dating. First, become comfortable with being single and alone. 2. Get into the best shape possible. 3. Never use a dating app. 4. Spend as much time outside as you can. The location doesn’t matter; it’s about exposure to random opportunities. 5. Your best bet is to meet someone at work, but if you live in a challenging area for men, like the Bay Area or Seattle, consider relocating to better markets. 6. Expand your social circle, whether that’s by reconnecting with old classmates, meeting people young or old, men or women. The goal is to maximize your exposure to opportunities. 7. Write down your non-negotiable criteria. Don’t settle for the first woman who shows interest. Keep looking and comparing against your criteria until you find the right one. Thank me later.
Thank you.
I like the advice on being outside as much as possible, how did your ex react to it? From what I've read, women tend to lose their marbles once they find you you might have a new significant other. I've so many questions, how did you deal with the kids of any? Were you able to get an equitable custody like 50/50?