I'm in my late 20s, the age when some of my peers have started getting hitched. I know two guys who are complete pathological liars with deep emotional issues who got married to seemingly normal girls (both small town white girls). === One is a nutcase. Aggression issues, delusions of grandeur, stereotypical alt-right, has a 50k job but spends like he earns 200k. He cannot go one week without making up some BS story about something he did. I've personally seen him engage in super-red-flag behavior like silent treatment and borderline sexual abuse. If he was born in a low socioeconomic background he would be in prison (I still think it's in the cards for him). He dated a girl for 5 years and they just got hitched. There is no way she didn't notice something was up in those 5 years. === The other also similar, tells everyone he's a cardiac surgeon even though he got rejected from med school. For a while he claimed to be in a PhD program (I believed that). Then he changed the story to actually it's an MD/PhD. Turns out, not even the PhD is true, he just does nothing. The crazy thing is he went on two YouTube podcasts claiming to be a surgery resident (at age 23, so it's impossible for him to be a surgery resident even if he did med school), one of them in blue surgeon scrubs! Both are still up on YouTube. Literally if all the girl did was Google his name, she would've discovered he's a total nutcase. Some girls literally don't even Google the name before marrying. Don't even ask to see bank account, salary, nothing. The first guy is good-looking. The second guy is not even that. === Guys may be simps and incels, but desperate girls are literally putting on a blindfold and walking into lava for fear of not being single. My only advice to anyone reading this, do not ignore ANY red flags. Verify everything independently. And if it's bad, don't be afraid to walk out!
Your post just comes off as jealous. Also don’t think alt-right means what you think it does
I have nothing to be jealous of
You are the fat friend who covers the hot girls in club when men approach
I'm a guy dude
They float in their emotions and are raised to be without any independent thought. What to do.
Sounds like they need to be independent. But they get bullied and harassed for being independent. What to do.
That's why you need to be brought up that way from young. Most parents don't bring up their girls that way even in this country. Lot of men don't treat their wives with respect as well
Wouldn’t it be wild if despite their hubands’ faults they actually somehow … loved them?
So what? Overlooking major personality disorders and abusive behavior because you love someone is the definition of childishness. Love is just evolutionary chemicals that facilitate monogamy.
Just saying it’s a possibly - difficult and problematic people are loved all the time. Didn’t include a judgment but thanks for sharing yours
Love is blind!
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