I’m 36 yr old, female. Well educated/travelled/dressed. Fit and attractive. Work in tech == financially stable. Own my place. This is not only me, all my single girlfriends have the same challenge/complaints. People say the Silicon Valley is full of guys, but not so much in my experience. 1/5 are super nerdy and don’t understand human emotions. 1/5 don’t want kids. 1/5 I don’t find attractive, 1/5 make less than 50% of what I make and I’m not very comfortable with that (I gave up the hope for equal-income partner long time ago. Given I have average tech salary, 50% means he needs to hold a decent job). The rest 1/5 feel they are too good for me. (Well these sections overlap so the math doesn’t really work, but you got the idea) Any ideas what I can do? I would appreciate guys’ perspective. Thanks! Some background, I’m an immigrant, which means it took me a lot of time and effort to land in the Silicon Valley. It also took me a couple of years to get familiar with the dating norms here. Still learning everyday =)
I dunno I just roll with a room full of $20k custom made silicon life-like dolls
Where do you order them? Do they cuddle well? 🤓
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You’re too picky or have requirements too hard to fulfill. That’s not necessarily a bad trait. But it’s the honest answer.
If you are into the same weird shit as I am will marry you no questions asked
What is “weird” according to you?
Great. I can handle handholding ☺️
I mean no disrespect, but how or why didn’t you find someone earlier? Did you not want to settle down sooner? Just curious.
I came from another country, spent too much time in school... also the dating scene/norms are very different here - took me a couple of years to adapt. 😏
Also immigrant woman here. Tell me 'bout it. Another thing people write on their profiles is that they like sarcasm. Whatever does that mean? This seems a very American thing. I take it to mean that they like having fun/ cracking jokes, etc..but would be good to know for sure
Is your sampleSize==5? 😀
If it were possible to choose to be gay... I would suggest that. Seems like the women (if, as you say, your friends are like you) are 💯💯
I’m guessing you probably have too many standards... there are good guys out there! Sometimes you just have to look past the exterior.
This going to be fun
Also the line “think they are too good for me” means 2 things. Your not as attractive as you think or they want a younger women.
Yes, successful men in their 30s have options. A 35-40 year old woman probably isnt it. Hard but true. Most guys value youth, and do not care about a womans TC.