This is part 2 of the post. If u want to read from beginning, start here - https://www.teamblind.com/us/s/6HCrLvuH ========= Some additional detail abt the Malaysian Tamil girl. As I said, she had a complicated family situation. Her father had abandoned his family early on. Her mom brought her up (and 2 brothers) on her own with financial help from her brother (ie the girl’s uncle). She had come to US on visitor visa but was wrking for cash as an admin in some doctor office. Basically visa fraud. And was looking for a husband in the interim. I pieced all this together later. But when I was talking to her though, I completely overlooked it. The korean girl (who I told everything) had told me from the get go that this is all fishy. But I told her that may be her view is colored … may be what u think abt indian girls is based on ur stay in delhi, that delhi girls are usually extra clever but tamil girls r not like that. But in the end her suspicion did turn out to be true. Infact, i used to get second opinion on almost all my social life from her (K). She was aware of few random girls that i met as well. One was a hyderabadi muslim girl (that is a whole different story). And another id a white girl from our accounting dept - which again is a different story. Actually during this time I joined a salsa dancing class and I met a whole bunch of new ppl - guys and girls. Got invited to their parties and met some more ppl. Thru them i explored new activities like kayaking, skiing. In those parties got also involved with a latino girl - dont even remember her name properly but it was my first sex. Also slept with some random white girl… and got blowjob from a black girl. One thing was clear - i did not enjoy mindless/casual sex much. I was not mentally built for it as I needed certain level of connection. While this was all happening I would call up K almost everyday and tell her abt it. It was like my routine. And if I missed it, she would call me. It was a strange bond - lot of times she would just read my mind. Often we would talk on the phone for hrs. Sometimes if I felt like talking to her, few min later she would call me - as if there was a telepathic connection I started liking her but always dismissed it. I had a feeling that she liked me too. Like… we would literally be talking till midnight sometimes One day she told me that a guy from her work had asked her out. I said “cool, have fun”. The day arrived and i felt impatient… thinking what she and that guy might be upto. Felt shitty actually. … and more shitty as the evening progressed… because i was imagining all sorts of things they might be doing. Next day she called me. I picked up the phone. I asked her “so, how did ur date go”. She laughed… said “oh it was very good”. Hearing this i was filled with rage. I hung up the phone. She called me back… multiple times. I did not pick up the phone. I felt like she was such a slut “oh it was very good” <— that just kept playing in my head. That evening i saw an email from her. She said she wants to talk and to call her back and it’s very important. When i called her back, she told me that the date never happened. That the guy did ask her but she declined. She asked “but why did u get so mad?” I said “i dont know. But u r just lying now”. She said she is not but that does not answer her qn “why does it bother u so much?” I said “ i dont know, it just makes me mad”. She was silent for a while. She insisted that I tell her why it makes me so upset I admitted to her that i liked her more than as a friend. She called me stupid for not telling her that before. I said “i thought u knew… and yet u said - oh it was very good”. She said ” u heard it and it made u so so upset …..can u imagine how i felt for the last 1 year as u were going after all these other girls telling me all the details” I dont know who started crying first… but we both were. We talked till 3 am that day. I told her abt all the time I would wait for her call and how I resisted the urge to call her… as I did not want to develop any feelings towards her… but eventually I would, but then tell her abt other girls just to pretend that we were just friends. She said “you are so silly. I used to wait for your calls and would impatient and would call u later… so shamelessly” This song actually portays it very well - https://youtu.be/Y-FhDScM_2w?si=44JwOz2Xr3mcHQAm (K almost looks like the girl in this video) I booked a flight to her place in cpl of days and spent a week with her. For the next few mnths that was my routine- fri/sat/sun at her place - almost every mnth. It was a happy time in my life. Every trip we planned out things to do - mostly watching movies in theatres, making out in corner, walking mall holding hands. We made an odd pair, but it didnt matter to either of us. I fulfilled many of my bucket list like going on a long drive in a convertible (renter ofcourse) with her. Am sure bollywood inspired desi ppl will appreciate this. Lot of naughty moments too. She wanted to go to a strip club 😜 with me - which we did. I told her that while we are having our time together, there is most likely no future for us. She said she knows but she is not thinking about that. “I dont want to think about that”. Thats what she said. Few months later, during one of my routine calls to my parents, they asked me to come to India for few weeks. I thought it has something to do with property. My dad had retired and was moving out of Delhi to Chennai. ..and he was in the process of buying a house. But he told me that there were few alliances that had come up and he wanted me to come over and meet the girl and her family. I told them that i am not interested in that route as I am already seeing someone else. He was surprised. Asked me who she was. When i told that that she is a Korean girl, all hell broke loose. Infact next few weeks were hell Part 3 here- https://www.teamblind.com/us/s/xfJrRzgw
seriously pick up the pace. any one from N get this man a TV show??!
Next part here -Check out this post! "How I met my wife (3) (Relationships)" https://www.teamblind.com/us/s/xfJrRzgw
Thanks bhai
Waiting for part 3. Drop it asap