Argh. Are our cultures really so different that we can barely understand each other or is this guy just enjoying playfully keeping me on the hook. Wtf is going on. Why do I want this person who I can’t have. How do I detach.
By putting ? in your sentences you can help us understand you and your questions first.
Point taken.
Thanks
Are you gay?
Nope.
How can you possibly have a crush on an Indian guy ???
Omg. This guy does something to me no man has done before. He’s insanely attractive to me. Pretty sure this is an unhealthy situation, unfortunately.
jim32 just mad that no one is crushing on him.
I feel like you could take the word Indian out of this sentence and it'd still work.
Lol tgm - agreed.
Ask him out? Often dating cultural norms are so unfamiliar that Indians don't even try for fear of doing something wrong. Make the first move.
I did. I thought maybe that’s all it would take. We dated for a couple weeks back in the spring. I broke it off. I was freaking out. He made me feel very insecure. I never knew where I stood with him. He was spending more time with other woman friends than with me.
Oh I see. Then he's just not interested in a serious relationship and you're having trouble moving on?
Oh I get it now, you mean you have a crush on an Native American Indian guy...makes sense to me now.
Stop Indian bashing. It’s stupid.
Sorry Lalah. You know I am 1/32 Indian
Why does it sound like you are “that guy”?
You need new crush
This guy sounds like me from the little description you gave in other comments. If I had to get me into something serious, I would probably start with planning entire weekends with me on hikes or shopping or something which can take whole day, not just a couple of hours. Get to know each other and show him how other people perceives me. Once the guy me sees that the girl me is of a really great value, and that if I drove her away it would be a loss, I would be more willing to get into a serious relationship. Getting into a serious relationship means I give up a part of my life, I can't flirt around or plan things as before, so it better be with a girl who I see of a value which triumphs all these other things. Also you did the right thing saying that you are super into him. That's the first step, cause most guys are oblivious to subtle hints.
Good advice
I feel like this is good advice. I feel like it’s too late. It would be weird to suggest anything like this now. Maybe a lesson learned though I don’t know when I’ll ever experience anything quite like this again.
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Just wear a “MAGA” hat in front of him and he will detach himself from you.
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